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Reddit AITA Reflection Time "Hey! I’m here to reflect on past actions and decisions. Looking for feedback to understand if I handled things well and what I could have done differently."

01/01/2026

We own a duplex. We live one unit and rent out the other unit. This place only has a single driveway that fits two cars and we use both of the spots. So we make sure any prospective tenants to the other unit know before hand that the place does not come with a parking spot. Even without a parking spot we’ve never had a tenant have an issue with it since we let them know up front. I was showing the unit to a couple the other day and told them about the parking situation. The woman immediately said that wasn’t going to work and they were going to need a parking spot because their son is disabled. They also brought up them needing to install ramps and other stuff before they moved in. I told them we were fine with them installing ramps and stuff like that, but we weren’t budging on the parking spot. Side note: Parking is really annoying and hard to get in our neighborhood because you can only park on one side of the street. The man said legally we had to give them a parking spot if there was one on the property since their son is disabled. I don’t know about that, but I know for damn sure we do not have to rent to them and they just seemed like the type of people to make things difficult. So I told them that this wasn’t going to work out. They tried to claim I was discriminating against them and that it was illegal. I’m assuming they never rented from owner occupied residences before so I explained how it wasn’t illegal and even showed them proof online that it wasn’t. They really tried to lay on the guilt a lot after that....

01/01/2026

My sister (27) and I (29) have a long history of having disagreements. No matter the topic, the outcome is always the same. She ignores texts and dodges calls for weeks or months. Eventually, she chooses to pretend that it never happened or says that she "just wants to move on". Four years ago, she asked for my opinion on her boyfriend (44) who had cheated on her and treated her poorly. I told her that she deserved better and as a result, we did not speak for a year. We eventually began speaking again after I called to tell her of my own engagement. My sister is now engaged to the same man and decided to have a destination wedding with immediate family. The wedding is in the middle of the week, to save money, despite it occurring at a resort. The ceremony will cost $15k and their honeymoon at the resort will cost $25k. They paid the deposits without asking any family members if they were available or could afford to attend. The resort also requires that the bride and groom book at least 3 rooms for a 3 night stay (at $400+/night). The bride and groom must pay the cost if their guests do not fill these rooms. This was told first to the fiance's family, so they booked off-site villas and now my family is expected to pay. When the wedding was booked, my sister knew that my hours were cut at work (making $500~/month) and I was living off savings. My younger sister (25) also has minimal savings and it will cost $2000/person to attend this wedding. My sister said we 'shouldn't worry about the cost' and suggested we ask our father for a loan. Thankfully my work hours have increased and I'll be starting...

[FULL STORY] What’s the 🦋 most disturbing thing you 🏩 uncovered after someone died?
31/12/2025

[FULL STORY] What’s the 🦋 most disturbing thing you 🏩 uncovered after someone died?

Billionaire ⭐ Saw His Fiancée Abuse His Elderly Mother — What The 🍸 Black Maid Did Shocked Everyone
31/12/2025

Billionaire ⭐ Saw His Fiancée Abuse His Elderly Mother — What The 🍸 Black Maid Did Shocked Everyone

AITA for making my daughter choose a 🐽 different restaurant 🚊 for her birthday meal than the one she really wanted?
31/12/2025

AITA for making my daughter choose a 🐽 different restaurant 🚊 for her birthday meal than the one she really wanted?

31/12/2025

This is not my main account. Please forgive any written mistakes, I am not a native speaker. (You are free to point them out though, it really helps me learn.) ​ Six months ago in the middle of the night I went to the emergency room in my local hospital. As I was sure that I had not eaten enough that day and I was about to start my period, I did not think that the pain in my stomach qualified as an emergency. When I could not take the pain any longer, I asked someone to drive me to the hospital. The nurses called the gynecologist who did not feel the need to examine me. Another doctor, who was not specialized in this medical field came to gave me an ultrasound but quickly told me that they were in no position to tell me what was wrong as they could not figure out what it was. They could only tell that something was not right. They called the gynecologist again, who refused to see me again. The doctor then told me that even though they could not tell me what was wrong that there was something and I should stay the night in the hospital and that the regular staff would check me out first thing in the morning. As it was already five in the morning and I was in pain, I decided to stay. When I finally received an ultrasound, I was told I would have to be operated on that very same day. I had surgery a few hours later. Afterwards they told me that I had a ruptured cyst that caused critical bleeding and I had lost a lot of blood. For that very reason, I had to stay longer in the hospital than other...

Husband (36m) said something that 👧 broke my (39f) heart. How do I process 💞 it?
31/12/2025

Husband (36m) said something that 👧 broke my (39f) heart. How do I process 💞 it?

31/12/2025

Part 1 These past days have been a bit unusual. First, I want to thank all of you; I didn't expect to receive so much advice, and I never thought this app would be so useful. It's not very popular in my country. Now, back to the topic. My ex sent me messages saying he wanted to resolve things, stop arguing, and talk to me. I agreed. He came to my house, and we didn't beat around the bush we went straight to the point. He asked me if I really thought he was a bad father. I replied that, looking back now, I never would've chosen him to be the father of my children. He said it wasn't easy for him, and I answered that it wasn't easy for me either because I take on both his role and mine. He told me he couldn't leave his stepchildren without a father because he had already broken their family, and I replied that he had left his own children without a father. He started crying and told me it was my fault, saying that when the infidelity happened, I refused to forgive him or go to couples therapy. I kept telling him things I'll admit they weren't kind, but none of them were lies. He asked me if, given his current state, I didn't feel sorry for him, and I said no. He told me he didn't think I could be so cruel, and I replied that when I changed jobs, pulled my kids out of school two months before the end of the term, moved houses, and watched him disappoint our kids over and over again, any empathy I might have felt turned into apathy. He left after that. His mother called me and said she knew what I...

AITA for not being happy that my brother‑in‑law and his girlfriend are finally pregnant after how they treated me and 🎋 ...
31/12/2025

AITA for not being happy that my brother‑in‑law and his girlfriend are finally pregnant after how they treated me and 🎋 🤡 my child?

31/12/2025

I got married on Saturday. My husband and me, we planned the wedding together over a span of 1 and a half years. We wanted something special and had a lot of friends from overseas (England, Scotland, SA, Colombia, Argentina etc etc). We invited 83 people. Of those 32 were family and the rest friends. My cousin brought his girl of 3 years. I do not know this woman very well. So I have neither anything against her nor do I like her. I am (was) indifferent. The ceremony went by as planned. We cried. My parents cried. His parents cried. We had a little 'champagne' reception before driving to the wedding venue. Anyway. Times goes by. We eat, do the toast. Photographer comes go me to inform me, he saw cousins practicing a proposal. Me, not wanting to escalate s__t, send my maid of honor to tell him that he shouldn't propose at my wedding. She goes, tells him, and he seems to get it. Until it was time to toss the bouquet. She didn't even catch the damn thing. My Grammy did. But when I turned around, my cousin was walking towards his gf with another bouquet, tells her she is next, and goes on one knee to propose. My family was cheering, and everyone else looked deeply uncomfortable. His gf cries and jumps, and my cousin turns around to (and I kid you not) tell the DJ to play 'their song' Before anything else could happen, I snatched the microphone and began giving a speech. I don't remember it fully. As I felt rage taking over. So here is the gist of it. But I said something like 'Congratulations, Mike and random girl I have never seen. May your marriage be as selfish as what you have...

Girl Invades Woman’s Dinner 😊 To ‘Rescue’ Her From Loneliness, Throws A 🐻 Tantrum When Rejected
31/12/2025

Girl Invades Woman’s Dinner 😊 To ‘Rescue’ Her From Loneliness, Throws A 🐻 Tantrum When Rejected

My [27F] little ☀️ brother [22M] joined 😾 a Pro Life group for young men. I'm considering cutting ties
31/12/2025

My [27F] little ☀️ brother [22M] joined 😾 a Pro Life group for young men. I'm considering cutting ties

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