05/19/2026
I’m suddenly questioning everything about our IVF plan 😅
After my miscarriage, my doctor now wants:
• another HSG
• a saline sonogram
• THREE months of suppression this time instead of two
• possibly another egg retrieval before transfer
And logically, I understand why. But emotionally, physically, financially… the thought of doing ALL of that and not transferring again until maybe January feels so overwhelming.
Especially because the two months of suppression technically did work… I got pregnant. The miscarriage was more likely chromosomal than implantation-related.
So now I’m sitting here wondering:
What if I’m still suppressed right now? What if this is actually the ideal window to try a modified natural transfer instead? 🤍
I genuinely don’t know what the “right” answer is anymore. IVF is such a constant balance between science, timing, hope, fear, finances, and trusting your gut.
Anyone else completely spiral after changing plans post-miscarriage? 🥺
