Denny the Singing Mama

Denny the Singing Mama šŸ“–Open Book on Motherhood + Mental Health
šŸŽ¤Singing through my 3-kid circus!
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10/04/2025

I filmed this over a week ago and I’m happy to report I am doing SO much better. I realized a few days in that taking it at night instead of in the morning really helped me avoid the side effects.

Now, a few bullet points about mental health medications:

* I never thought I’d be someone taking these, but when you hit rock bottom you realize how they can literally save a life. Any stigma you used to have disappears. It’s not the right decision for everyone, but it has been for me.

* This isn’t about one specific med. I guess I’m sharing my experience in the hopes that it would help someone out there who may be in a similar situation. There are many types, and even with an in-depth evaluation by a medical provider, you still may need to try different dosages or types over time.

* I have learned that it is not uncommon to need to change up your dose or try a different medication before finding one that works for you. I have gone from Zoloft to Prozac to now Cymbalta over the past 5 years. Each time I switched or increased a dose it was with careful evaluation by my psychiatrist.

* I don’t expect to reach perfection. Medications are a tool, and while I believe in the incredible work that scientists have done to create a tool like this to help balance out brain chemicals, I fully RELY on the God who I believe created me and knows me better than I know myself. He is the true Physician. You can have a solid faith and also take mental health meds āœŒšŸ¼

10/01/2025

Anyone else place unreasonably high expectations on a cup of tea?

09/27/2025

Bringing this song back around because I NEED IT these days 🄵

09/26/2025

Let’s maybe just stop calling other moms bad moms, mmkay?

09/22/2025

Something we say often at my church is, ā€œhowever you came in today - you are enough to be loved,ā€ and that is true of this page, too.

YOU are enough to be loved.

My faith in Jesus is the most important thing in my life, but He has called me to love others as I love myself. So no matter who you are, what you look like, what you believe, how you vote…I’m glad YOU are here!

Let’s tackle this motherhood thing together and keep working on our mental health one day at a time🄰

09/19/2025

Don’t tell my husband 🤫

I care about you all, even if we disagree šŸ’•
09/15/2025

I care about you all, even if we disagree šŸ’•

Some realistic pictures of how my August felt….peep my angsty 6-year-old in the last picture šŸ˜‚
09/02/2025

Some realistic pictures of how my August felt….peep my angsty 6-year-old in the last picture šŸ˜‚

This ā€œbabyā€ fell asleep on me today. His growing body now stretching from the crook of my neck where he nuzzles his head...
05/21/2024

This ā€œbabyā€ fell asleep on me today. His growing body now stretching from the crook of my neck where he nuzzles his head to the tops of my knees where his toes touch.

ā€œPlease, stop growing so quickly.ā€ I whisper to him.

This ā€œbabyā€ screamed in my face today as his little balled up fist swung towards me in a frustrated two-year-old fury.

ā€œPlease, outgrow this quickly.ā€ I mumble under my breath.

This ā€œbabyā€ completed our family and although it feels right that he is our last, some days it feels so, so wrong.

ā€œPlease, savor these days as best you can.ā€ I plead with myself.

You ever feel like you already miss the days that haven’t left yet? I feel that today. Some days I want so badly to be past a difficult stage, and others I am begging time to slow down.

It’s okay to feel all of the things, mamas šŸ’•

Mother’s Day feels complicated this year. I’m at a beach with my husband celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary, an...
05/12/2024

Mother’s Day feels complicated this year.

I’m at a beach with my husband celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary, and I just sent an email to our daughter’s birth mother wishing her a happy Mother’s Day.

It’s complicated.

My daughter made me a mother, but she also made her first mom a mother. I’m at an all inclusive resort celebrating 10 years of commitment to an amazing husband and father. She never had that. Growing up as a child or when she became an adult.

When we first became foster parents and were headed towards adoption, a lot of well-intended people would speak negatively about her birth mom. She has made her fair share of mistakes and it weighs on me daily that her choices will forever be a painful part of my daughter’s testimony.

But she still birthed her. That little girl is here because she chose to have her. God knew the pain and the heartache that would follow, but I trust that He still knew what He was doing when He chose her to be my daughter’s first mom.

If you have a complicated Mother’s Day story, you’re not the only one. But no matter what it is that makes yours a bit different, I am praying that today you trust that God, the one who loves a good redemption story, is working redemption in your life as well. If you don’t see it yet, ask Him to show you. He’s closer than you think 🌸

And to my daughter’s birth mom, I’m so thankful that you chose life for our sweet girl 🩷

Public restrooms with kids: a series.Desperate ā€œtime of the monthā€ called for desperate measures, so I stuck my phone su...
03/23/2024

Public restrooms with kids: a series.

Desperate ā€œtime of the monthā€ called for desperate measures, so I stuck my phone suction cup case on the wall to distract them but then started taking pictures šŸ¤¦šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


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