07/30/2025
Returning from my brother-in-law’s Celebration of Life services in Virginia, I find myself changed by the impact of Mr. Marlon Foster’s life on my own and so many others’.
Hundreds, if not thousands, of people joined alongside the extended Foster family to honor this incredible man in person and online. The words shared by countless people rang true to me about this humble Air Force Band member, honored middle school band director, private percussion teacher, college musician and husband to my sister, Cheryl, for forty-one years.
Last summer, he especially challenged me in deep conversations about walking lovingly and truthfully with family while my siblings and I finalized my father’s estate. He listened to my brokenness and saw my grieving heart. I will never forget his distinctive laughter; his persistence in calling for authenticity; his contentment while sitting alone; and his willingness to share Cheryl with me over the years.
Marlon was a teacher called to a higher level, and he brought as many students as possible with him on his journey through good times and challenging ones. 🕊️
🩵 Chris’ perspective:
He loved teaching. My daughter, Jessica, said he had the gift of delight. He loved holding to that, trying to transfer that delight to his students.
He saw the world both as it is and what it could be and was so disappointed in us for being satisfied with the pitiful state we have left it in. But he knew that if he could just get us to see it the way it was meant to be, and to see who we were meant to be, it would make the difference. We met so many people for whom he had made that difference. There were so many stories of careers encouraged, families strengthened, and lives changed.
I left Marlon’s funeral services feeling the same way — encouraged, strengthened, and changed. Marlon’s legacy remains. The seeds he planted continue to grow and bear fruit. And I, and many others, are so much better because of him.
Thank you, Marlon, for inviting us into your wonderful world of mentoring and caring for others no matter the costs. 💜 Click link in bio to read blog.
