06/16/2025
During a recent vacation at a resort, I visited a restaurant that featured a 50-gallon aquarium. As I walked in, I noticed a solitary fish swimming alone, while another fish was hovering near the top, just an inch away from the glass and three inches below the waterline swimming next to the filter. Initially, I thought the second fish might be dead or dying. After enjoying my meal, I returned to check on the aquarium and saw that the fish was still in the same position. Curious, I asked the hostess about it, and she explained that the larger fish was a bully, always harassing the smaller one, which was why it chose to hide.
This situation made me reflect on the dynamics among people in our lives—partners, colleagues, friends, and others. Just as the bigger fish exerted control over the smaller one, there may be individuals around you who subtly impose their expectations and desires. This can create a discomfort that is not in harmony with your beliefs or what you truly want for yourself.
Consider who these "bullying" influences might be in your own life. Reflect on how you might be manipulated by various forces, including political and religious leaders, or authority figures in general. It’s important to recognize these dynamics so you can ponder their impact and reclaim your personal power.