
06/21/2025
‘Manchild’s’ are everywhere these days
Most Boyfriends Don’t Want Love—They Want Mothering
They say they want a good woman.
But what they mean is:
“Cook for me.
Clean for me.
Listen to my problems…
…but don’t bring me yours.”
1. You Want Her Care—But Not Her Voice
You love when she holds you…
But flinch when she speaks truth.
You say she’s “nagging”
Any time she sets a boundary.
You expect her to soothe your wounds—
But call her “too much” when she asks for healing of her own.
2. You’re Not Building—You’re Draining
She’s the one:
– Texting you to eat
– Reminding you of appointments
– Holding space for your moods
But when she cries?
You say, “What now?”
Or worse—“You’re so dramatic.”
She’s not your mother.
She’s not your therapist.
She’s your partner.
Start acting like it.
3. You Don’t Want Partnership—You Want Parenting
You don’t want to grow.
You want comfort.
You don’t want feedback.
You want praise.
You don’t want equality.
You want emotional babysitting in a woman’s body.
Final Word: You Don’t Need a Girlfriend—You Need to Grow Up
She’s not breaking down because she’s unstable.
She’s breaking down because she’s exhausted.
Stop asking her to love you into maturity.
Grow yourself.
Meet her there.
Or let her go before she forgets how to breathe.
Credit: Liana J.