01/08/2025
He hadn’t moved anything in the house. Their bed was still unmade — it had been like that for days, he said, since the last night they slept in it. Her shoes, tossed near the front door. In the kitchen, their dishes still sat untouched in the sink. He said he couldn’t bring himself to wash the ones they had used to eat breakfast before they left the house that last morning.
“We didn’t know this was the last time she was going to come back,” he told El Tecolote.
For the past weeks, Roberto has been sleeping on a friend’s couch, too distraught to spend the night alone in his house.
In July, Roberto’s wife Sandra was arrested by ICE during a routine check-in appointment at the agency’s San Francisco field office. Since then, she has been held in a detention center, waiting for updates on her pending asylum case.
“For them, it’s very normal. But the result is a home destroyed,” Roberto said. “I’m really depressed. I haven’t eaten in days. I’m not hungry, I don’t want to eat anything.”
“She’s my family,” he added. “She’s my home.”
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