01/01/2026
So I (19f) live with my cousin (20f) because we go to the š same university. I have type 1 diabetes and a chronic lung condition that requires me to be on oxygen therapy full time. My aunt (cousin's mom) never believed that I'm as sick as I am, even with the near constant hospitalisation through my childhood and two emergency surgeries. They'd mock me when I couldn't attend cousin's birthday parties or take part in sports as much as she does. š£ This has rubbed off on my cousin. She also believes that I'm faking being sick. She's publicly accused me several times of having Manchausen Syndrome in front of mutual friends. Manchausen's is a mental disorder where people repeatedly act like they have an ailment that āŗļø they do not. Because of this, our friends are split on who to believe. I have an oxygen concentrator in the apartment. She complains about it nonstop as it can get a bit loud, and it's turned on 24/7. The oxygen gets delivered through a nasal cannula, and it has a 40ft long wire so I can move about the apartment. I can't even remember how many times she's "accidentally" tripped or stepped on my wire causing it to fall out or get disconnected. My parents got š me a designer bag for my birthday. Immediate snarky comments from her. "It's not like she can even go clubbing, why does she need something like that?" or "She won't get a boyfriend, who'd date someone that's hooked to a machine all the time?" Few days after that, I had to go out for a while. Told her I'd be back in a few hours. Finished what I needed to do quicker than I thought, so I went home a bit earlier than I said I would....