
10/08/2025
We talk so much about red flags these days that we sometimes forget people are human. Flawed, growing, and healing, just like us.
Not every disagreement means someone is toxic. Not every mistake means you should walk away. Sometimes what youâre seeing is not a red flag. Itâs a real person learning how to love, communicate, and show up better.
Yes, protect your peace. But also be honest with yourself. Are you looking for perfection or partnership?
He takes longer to open up? Maybe heâs learning how to feel safe emotionally.
She gets defensive sometimes? Maybe sheâs been misunderstood too often.
They communicate differently? Maybe thatâs your opportunity to grow in patience and empathy.
Be careful who you take advice from. Some people will project their pain onto your relationship and call it wisdom. Listen, but filter. Everyoneâs story is not your story.
Maturity is knowing the difference between a red flag and a rough edge. One means danger. The other means growth.
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