
08/10/2025
Sonora Jha’s ‘Intemperance’ blends romcoms, Hindu myths, and feminist musings
Full article by Nalini Ayer at https://iexaminer.org/sonora-jha-intemperance-book-review-seattle-readings/ and in the current print issue
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A single Indian American Sociology professor in Seattle, five weeks away from her fifty-fifth birthday, decides to throw a swayamvar. A practice referenced in Hindu epics and myths, a swayamvar is a contest set up by a king to find eligible suitors for his daughter.
The eligible men must perform impossible feats to win the hand of the princess. Such moments are key to the plot in Ramayana and the Mahabharata, among the many Indian narratives that feature this distinctive event. This practice undergirds how royal families promulgated political power by ensuring alliances with powerful warrior kings using their daughters as pawns in that political game.
In Intermperance, Sonora Jha playfully adapts the swayamvar to 21st century Seattle, and this delightful novel takes the reader into a provocative, witty, and poignant exploration of marriage, family, migration, relationships, caste, disability, race, desire, sexuality and so much more. Drawing from a variety of genres—rom-coms (our protagonist lives on a house boat in Lake Union, a nod to Sleepless in Seattle), Hindu mythology (goddesses pop up unexpectedly to guide and occasionally thwart the protagonist), magical realism (a smear of kohl sent by a distant relative from India sparks time travel to the protagonist’s complicated family history)—the novel blends a delightful plot with intersectional feminist meditations on a middle-aged woman’s quest for love.