Hugoot ni azzyl

07/17/2025

He's not CHEATING, but there's no flowers, no surprises, no dates unless you almost beg for them.

The truth is, LAZINESS can slowly kill love. The kind that stops trying, stops showing up, and still expects you to stay, even when your heart isn't being cared for.

It's not always another woman. Sometimes it's the lack of effort. Neglect feels like betrayal too. You shouldn't have to beg to feel chosen. The bare minimum isn't love, it's DRAINING.

And you DESERVE someone who shows up for you without being reminded. Someone who makes you feel wanted, appreciated, and chosen, every single day.

❤️

06/18/2025

ANG PAGKAWALA NA NG EFFORT ANG UMTI UNTING PUMAPATAY MG PAGMAMAHAL

Hindi lang dahil sa pagtataksil namamatay ang relasyon.
Minsan, unti-unti na lang siyang nawawala

sa kawalan ng effort,
dahil sa sobrang comfort niyo na sa isat isa nakakalimutan ng alagaan ang iyong kapareha

Pwede kang maging tapat pero failed ka prin sa pagmamahak.
Pwede kang hindi mangaliwa, pero minsan ang relasyin niyo ay uhaw na sa kalinga.

Kasi ang pag-ibig, hindi lang basta dapat panatilihin.
Pagpili ‘yan—araw-araw, paulit-ulit, sa mga bagay na may halaga.

Kailan ka huling nag-effort para mapasaya siya?
Kailan mo siya huling sinorpresa, hindi dahil may okasyon, kundi dahil gusto mo lang siyang mapangiti?
Bakit hindi mo na ginagawa? , dahil inisip mong nandiyan lang naman siya palagi?

Ang pagiging wala ng effort, hindi lang ‘yan tungkol sa nakakalimutang monthsary o sa hindi pagbibigay ng regalo.
Ang tunay na walang effort, ‘yung nakakalimot na ang pagmamahal ay action.

Yung unti-unting paglayo, habang magkasama pa kayo.
Yung pakiramdam ng isa, na kahit nandiyan ka, parang ang tagal na niyang mag-isa.

Huwag hayaang maging komportable sa isat isa.
Huwag hayaang palitan ng routine ang tunay na intensyon.

Ang pag-ibig, hindi ‘yan passive.
Araw-araw ‘yang pagpili.
Araw-araw ‘yang effort.
Araw-araw ‘yang paglalaban.

Kasi ang pinakamasakit na heartbreak,
hindi lang galing sa breakup.
kundi sa pag stay nga pero hindi na talaga maramdaman.

Piliin niyo ang isa’t isa. Araw-araw. Hindi lang sa salita, kundi sa gawa.

📷

05/13/2025

Pinasuko MO Yun Tao wlang balak sukuan ka,!

05/13/2025

Yun 6 yrs Oras lng hingi sau wla Iba sobrang hirap PA makuha,

05/12/2025

05/11/2025

Don’t stress about it, sis. Seriously… take a deep breath and let it go. Let him talk to whoever he wants. Let him text whoever he wants. Let him entertain whoever he wants. You’re not in the business of babysitting a grown man. You’re not going to lose sleep over someone who doesn’t know how to appreciate you.
If he chooses to disrespect you, that’s not a reflection of your worth… that’s a reflection of his character. If he decides to flirt, to entertain, to play games behind your back, let him. Because a man who is willing to risk losing a real woman for temporary attention from random women isn’t a man you need to fight for.
Let him do what he wants, because every action comes with a consequence. And one day, he’s going to look around and realize he lost the best woman he’s ever had. He’s going to scroll through his phone and feel the emptiness where your messages used to be. He’s going to miss the way you cared, the way you forgave, the way you showed up for him even when he didn’t deserve it.
He’ll look for you in every woman he meets… and he won’t find you. Because you’re one of one. You’re rare. You’re a blessing he fumbled. And that regret? That emptiness? That’s his to carry… not yours.
So don’t stress about what he’s doing. Sit back, focus on yourself, level up, heal, glow. Let him play childish games while you grow into the woman who won’t even look twice at him when he tries to come back.
You were never the problem… you were the peace he wasn’t ready for. And losing a woman like you? That’s a loss he’ll never recover from. ❤️