01/06/2026
I’ve given up a lot less than I anticipated in some ways and a lot more in others.
1. I gave up my Starbucks habit. At one point I was drinking 2 trenta pink drinks a day and grabbing a banana walnut bread at each visit. Expensive and unnecessary.
2. I gave up the idea of linear progress. This journey has had more ups and downs than a roller coaster, I’ve learned to go with the flow.
3. The idea of a timeline. This girl thought she’d be done by now but here we are 3 years later with 50 to go.
4. The idea that I’d look the way I did when I was 18. Check those arms, I’m trying to fill them in but they have a melted candle loom that isn’t going away sometime soon.
5. The privacy, turns out that weight loss is a very public,private battle. Everyone wants to know more and I’ve chosen to share it.
6. The notion that I’ll be “done” at some point. Turns out that this is a lifestyle. I know they say that all the time but you don’t realize it until you’re in it and you can’t go backs
7. My warmth, it’s so cold all the time!
8. My hair. I lost about a third of it but it’s finally coming back in.
9. My free time because it’s now spent meal prepping and hitting the gym. No regrets, just a different choice.
How about you, what did you give up?