09/24/2025
"Arguments drag out because one is too stubborn to forgive & the other is too proud to apologize. "
Lately, I’ve noticed how often political & religious views are being shared on social media & how quickly those posts can spark arguments or even create distance between people who care deeply about one another. When we open our comments to the public, we’re also opening the door to reactions—some positive - but often very negative. That’s why I’ve always encouraged others & reminded myself to approach these moments with an open mind & heart. In my own life, I’ve worked hard to instill in my children the values of love, respect, & compassion for every person, regardless of who they are, what faith they follow, or where they come from. We live in a world where differences are natural, & in many ways, they make us stronger. But it’s especially important to remember this truth within our own families, where love should always come first. I’ve made it very clear to myself & my loved ones that I will not, under any circumstances, allow political or religious disagreements to tear us apart. Family is too precious for that.
We will never agree on every issue, & that’s okay. Respecting each other’s differences is far more important than winning an argument. For that reason, if I ever decide to share my personal views online, I will choose to disable comments. My words would not be an invitation for debate, but simply an expression of how I feel. My family is beautifully diverse—we are blessed with people of different races, religions, genders, and political perspectives. I cherish each & every one of them, & nothing will change the love I feel for my children, in-laws, grandchildren, & extended family.I absolutely refuse to let social media disputes or political disagreements interfere with our family gatherings, holidays, & special moments. These are the times that matter most—the moments when we come together, share meals, laugh, & create memories that will last for generations. If anyone in my family were to let differences get in the way of that, it would break my heart. But my choice will always be to step back peacefully rather than let division poison our bond. 🙏
