06/07/2026
I remember this like it was yesterday, and the mixed reactions we got when we told people
This time last year, we went to the beach closest to our home. It was so grey and cold. This is what a June beach day in Washington looks like a lot of times.
We went with some friends who have a daughter, close to our eldest's age. We told them at the beach how we were going to do it. We were moving abroad.
We were moving to Spain, most likely. We did not have it all figured out, but we had decided it would happen in the fall.
They lamented how they wished they could do the same thing. The husband was from Montana, and his parents had moved out the year before and actually bought a house near us.
The grandparents watched their granddaughter for about half the week. The parents split the childcare with the grandparents. So they were able to avoid the almost $2,000 daycare bill that hit us every month.
They loved the idea of moving abroad, though, but knew they wouldn't get his parents on board. The husband had even turned down a job in Scotland, even though that was their dream country to live in and where they celebrated their honeymoon.
Their faces and reactions were mixed by our news. We had been talking about wanting this for as long as they knew us. They were happy for us, but I think they were sad to see us go, and they were also feeling mixed, as they felt tied to a place they didn't necessarily want to live in.
It is actually wild to think about that cold and grey day on the Washington beach. There was no one there. No families out besides our own.
Today we went to the beach here in Valencia. The beach was so full of life and happiness. There were so many places to sit and shop. The playground had kids for my kids to play with. Life was happening and thriving.
Looking back, it feels surreal. We actually did it. We changed our circumstances. Our life is so full and bright. We have made so many memories with our daughters.
A lot has changed in the last year. I am so thankful we did this. It was a lot of work. It took a lot of faith and courage, but we just knew we needed to make this change. Tomorrow we will be looking at a house where we can walk to this beautiful, thriving beach. I am genuinely excited about our future.
I am so grateful for this beautiful life and family.
Thank you all for supporting us along this journey!