Tothetriftandbeyond

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What kind of a reward… 🤔Mind you, I’m not even close to completing this week and probably won’t. AND I’m not monetized. ...
06/07/2026

What kind of a reward… 🤔

Mind you, I’m not even close to completing this week and probably won’t. AND I’m not monetized.

Anyone else ever gotten this message? If yes, what kind of reward are we talking about. Do I put myself into overdrive to try to complete?

For my fellow Etsy sellers—What is the best way to handle this? It looks like I can cancel the order or refund (both way...
06/05/2026

For my fellow Etsy sellers—

What is the best way to handle this? It looks like I can cancel the order or refund (both ways the buyer gets the refund). Anyone have insight on what is best as the seller in this situation? Is one better than the other or does it not matter… 🤔💭

P.s. This is the second time items from this VTG DOLLHOUSE collection have sold, only for the buyer to tell me they didn’t realize it was doll sized. The first time they received the item and then realized resulting in a return. At least this time it was realized right away BUT what else can I do to alert the buyer to the size. I have DOLL / DOLLHOUSE listed in the Title, multiple times in the description, and the actual dimensions listed 🤦🏽‍♀️

SOLDS going out 🫡4 eBay2 Poshmark $162.62 + shipping 🎉
06/04/2026

SOLDS going out 🫡

4 eBay
2 Poshmark

$162.62 + shipping 🎉

06/03/2026

It’s been one of those weeks…

Anyone else ever feel like some weeks it’s like pulling teeth to get yourself to post or create content? And other weeks you’re turnin out posts like Oprah handing out cars: “You get content! You get content!” 🚗🤣

As I’ve seen other friends complain about, one of last weeks goals reset mid-week and I think that really threw me off for this week. It’s so aggravating when you put in work and it basically disappears! 😩

Hoping the motivation comes back for next week! Wishing ya’ll the best hump day today 🐪!

I posted several months back asking friends for help with something on eBay. I was trying to figure out why, even with I...
06/01/2026

I posted several months back asking friends for help with something on eBay. I was trying to figure out why, even with Immediate Payment Required turned on, some buyers still seem to have days to pay.

Thankfully, someone gave me the perfect explanation, so when it happened again this week, I knew exactly what was going on. 😅

This buyer messaged me asking the lowest I’d go on an item. It’s normally listed at $99.99 (before my current sale). I told them I’d prefer to stay above $80. Several hours later, they sent an offer for $80, and I accepted it. 👍

But then… it sat there awaiting payment for several days.

For anyone who doesn’t know, when a buyer sends an offer and the seller accepts it, the buyer gets up to 4 days to pay—even if you have Immediate Payment Required selected. 💡

After a few days, I sent them a message asking if they were still planning to purchase the item. No response. Then a couple of days later… they requested to cancel the order. 😂

Here’s where my confusion kicks in:

If the item was still awaiting payment, then no money was ever being held, right? So how is there even an order to cancel? 🤣

Obviously, I understand the back-end side of things and that an order technically exists. This is more of a rhetorical question because I just find it funny that nothing was paid for, yet I still have to cancel the order. 😆

Hopefully this helps anyone who hasn’t run into this yet—or anyone wondering why a payment didn’t go through immediately. 📦✨

Lots of small solds going out 📦💨So happy to get some of these items sold. A few of them have been around for WAY too lon...
05/30/2026

Lots of small solds going out 📦💨

So happy to get some of these items sold. A few of them have been around for WAY too long. Items I get for free im okay with getting small amounts of money for. But definitely trying to work towards getting rid of a lot of these things, and work my way up to having a minimum of $15. The really small sales can be great. But time is money. And as I’ve seen others point out, it takes the same amount of time to list a low value item as a high one! ☝🏼

Alright I know, I know views and watchers don’t mean much. But this one has me wondering… Belle has been listed for prob...
05/30/2026

Alright I know, I know views and watchers don’t mean much. But this one has me wondering…

Belle has been listed for probably for around 6 months. As it says in the photo she was relisted 8 days ago (only because I have Nifty set to relist items every 28 days). Never has she had more than a few views and maybe 1 watcher? She doesn’t sell for all that much, and is missing her shoes.

WHY in 8 days has there been 46 views and 10 watchers? Does anyone have items that sell frequently with zero views and then one random item with a whole bunch out of nowhere?

Sometimes the eBay algorithm is giving Beyoncé-level exposure. Other times it’s giving ‘performing for three people and a folding chair’ 🤣🎤

Using your past experiences, what do you think the follow up response is going to look like? 🔎Do you think this is going...
05/29/2026

Using your past experiences, what do you think the follow up response is going to look like? 🔎

Do you think this is going to become one of those situations where I’m responsible for an item not delivered properly? Or will it get sorted out before it gets to that? 📦

For context this was sold on Mercari. 💸
For more context, I had USPS completely lose (yes — completely as this was well over a year ago now and STILL it hasn’t turned up) a package. The item was a rare VTG Sesame Street Toddler Sweatshirt with an embroidered Bert on the front. Other characters were available on various secondhand marketplaces but even those were few and far between. This one of Bert was the only one I could find. It was one of those item where I had posted it before I really started taking reselling seriously in a bundle with other Sesame Street items. It has sat listed for months on months…

It wasn’t until a buyer sent a message asking for just that sweatshirt that I started regretting listing it in the bundle, and kind of regretted listing it at all. It was so unique, 90s aesthetic, and well-made — the kind of things we don’t see of equal quality here in 2026. BUT I’m a reseller and keeping items just because isn’t the name of this game. So I did my research and told the buyer $30. They accepted and we completed the transaction. It was shipped out and then it went completely ghost. 👻 Never to be seen again.

As you can tell I’m still bitter at USPS 🤣 But the real kicker is Mercari took the $30+ payment back and refunded the buyer. Of course the buyer should have been refunded if they didn’t receive what they ordered, but why would the seller be punished for completing their job and someone else not completing theirs?

So I ask you again— what do we think? 🤔
Hoping to not have a repeat situation!

Ps. I did spend additional time with the Post Master trying to locate it. He followed up for several months but still no one could find it! 🤷🏽‍♀️

When you stop what you’re doing halfway through the day and end up getting sucked in by the cutest little lady ever. Pic...
05/29/2026

When you stop what you’re doing halfway through the day and end up getting sucked in by the cutest little lady ever. Picked up her head to look at me and immediately laid back down and snuggled in 🐾🐕

Production went from 100 to 0 real quick 💥
Let’s just stay here for the rest of the day 😴💤

Sometimes this business is confusing… 💭Not a big one… but this is the fastest sale I’ve ever made. I almost didn’t list ...
05/29/2026

Sometimes this business is confusing… 💭

Not a big one… but this is the fastest sale I’ve ever made. I almost didn’t list it because I’m trying to get away from items that sell for less than $20. I got this in a container of misc free items over a year ago. Got to photographing it the other day. Listed it today and it sold in a matter of hours… to an international buyer 🧐

Does anyone else sometimes feel like the things that sell makes ZERO sense to them? But hey, I’ll never complain about marking a sale, even if it’s a small one! ☝🏼

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