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‼️HELP HELP HELP! ‼️I need to know what you would do in this situation. It feels very scammy…. With that being said, thi...
08/02/2026

‼️HELP HELP HELP! ‼️

I need to know what you would do in this situation. It feels very scammy….
With that being said, things obviously do happen and I would HATE to lose a customer if this really was a shipping issue.

I purchased this game at a yard sale near by a few months ago. DEFINITE BOLO so I snatched it up quick.

I just got around to listing it on 7/25, I took the photos for my listing that day. It sold in less than 24 hours for $106.25. The item was in near MINT condition. Only notable damage is the tape marks on the sides of the box, which is noted in the description. My dad is retired and helps me with shipping. I honestly prefer him to box items because he is an absolute perfectionist, down to even measuring the tape pieces so they are even 🤣 He takes a ridiculous amount of time and patience to package each piece, whether it’s $1 or $500. As a side note, I have 100% positive feedback on eBay and I’ve never had a single item arrive damaged. I’ve shipped everything from large kid sized toys (ex. 1989 Little Tikes washer and dryer) to the smallest of items including glass. Not one thing has ever arrived broken or damaged. Not one. In fact my feedback is littered with comments on the how well items are packaged and the creativity used during shipping.

For items we don’t already have a good sized box for he creates a box, reducing size and shape so it’s as perfect as possible. For this item, he created a box. The game fit perfectly inside. No additional room for it to move around. Inside the game box there is no space, when I say no space I really mean NO space. As you can see in my photos once the board and instructions are inside there is not a single shred of space for anything to move around. The game box is in such good condition there is no bowing, and it still has that game box “suction” where if you turned it upside down nothing would move.

Item arrived to the buyer yesterday and this morning I received the message in the photos- stating that the tray arrived completely shattered and the VHS is missing its label. Unfortunately I didn’t take photos of the VHS on the inside so that’s on me. BUT I see no possible way for that tray to shatter during shipping with no movement happening in the game box or the shipping box, ESPECIALLY with zero damage to either box. I need your opinions on how to handle this. I’m obviously going to contact eBay, but what is the best way to go about it. I’m worried about pi***ng off the buyer and ending up with negative feedback, and I don’t want to return any money if this is a scam (which the more I think about it the more aggravated I get, and the less I see how this could have been the least bit possible).

The first 8 pictures are some of the listing photos- I have a few more but these are most important to see what I’m talking about.
Next 2 photos are the conversation this morning.
Following 4 photos are what was sent with the buyers original message.
Remaining 8 are what was sent after I requested more pictures.

Listed this beauty on eBay a few days ago. Was trying to get a couple listings moved over on Nifty this afternoon. Withi...
06/22/2026

Listed this beauty on eBay a few days ago. Was trying to get a couple listings moved over on Nifty this afternoon. Within minutes I got an offer on Depop, and she SOLD!

Probably the fastest sale I’ve ever made — especially for Depop (only have 8 total sold items on there, including this one) 😂

Does MLP seem to do well on Depop for anyone else? 💭
Might have to make getting other MLP items listed on there a priority ‼️🦄

Then v. now… I officially turn 36 years today 😲…which means I’ve unlocked a brand-new achievement: promotion to the next...
06/16/2026

Then v. now… I officially turn 36 years today 😲

…which means I’ve unlocked a brand-new achievement: promotion to the next age bracket😭

You know you’re 36 when:
✅ You make noises every time you stand up.
✅ You get excited about finding good storage containers
✅ Math is required to remember your age
✅ A kid calls something “vintage” and it’s from your childhood.

Somehow us 1990s baby’s are old enough to remember cassette tapes, but still young enough to pretend 1990 was only 20 years ago.

To my fellow 1990 babies, welcome to the next age bracket. We may be 36 now, but mentally we’re still recovering from realizing the 90s were over 25 years ago.

Excuse me while I go update all the survey forms that no longer let me check the 26-35 box. 💀 The worst part isn’t turning 36. It’s realizing we’re now closer to 45 than we are to Blockbuster😂🎂

When your child’s friends parents support your resell business…They ask if you want this stuff FO FREEEE 🎉Love them for ...
06/13/2026

When your child’s friends parents support your resell business…

They ask if you want this stuff FO FREEEE 🎉
Love them for that 💕

06/13/2026

I haven’t posted in something like 5 days straight…

If you have mom friends, check on them! The last few weeks of school are not for the weak 🙄😭 It’s been in the 90s for days on end so we are sweatin our butts off out here. AND my car has no AC right now.. aka I’ve been nothing but a melting mess 🤣

On a separate note, today is my 11 year anniversary with my significant other. He couldn’t even speak the words so here I am, celebrating on my own at my son’s end of the season soccer party.

So…
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO MYSELF 🎉

Sorry for the lack of communication and engagement. Miss you all, and be back in full swing real soon 👌🏽💕

What kind of a reward… 🤔Mind you, I’m not even close to completing this week and probably won’t. AND I’m not monetized. ...
06/07/2026

What kind of a reward… 🤔

Mind you, I’m not even close to completing this week and probably won’t. AND I’m not monetized.

Anyone else ever gotten this message? If yes, what kind of reward are we talking about. Do I put myself into overdrive to try to complete?

For my fellow Etsy sellers—What is the best way to handle this? It looks like I can cancel the order or refund (both way...
06/05/2026

For my fellow Etsy sellers—

What is the best way to handle this? It looks like I can cancel the order or refund (both ways the buyer gets the refund). Anyone have insight on what is best as the seller in this situation? Is one better than the other or does it not matter… 🤔💭

P.s. This is the second time items from this VTG DOLLHOUSE collection have sold, only for the buyer to tell me they didn’t realize it was doll sized. The first time they received the item and then realized resulting in a return. At least this time it was realized right away BUT what else can I do to alert the buyer to the size. I have DOLL / DOLLHOUSE listed in the Title, multiple times in the description, and the actual dimensions listed 🤦🏽‍♀️

SOLDS going out 🫡4 eBay2 Poshmark $162.62 + shipping 🎉
06/04/2026

SOLDS going out 🫡

4 eBay
2 Poshmark

$162.62 + shipping 🎉

06/03/2026

It’s been one of those weeks…

Anyone else ever feel like some weeks it’s like pulling teeth to get yourself to post or create content? And other weeks you’re turnin out posts like Oprah handing out cars: “You get content! You get content!” 🚗🤣

As I’ve seen other friends complain about, one of last weeks goals reset mid-week and I think that really threw me off for this week. It’s so aggravating when you put in work and it basically disappears! 😩

Hoping the motivation comes back for next week! Wishing ya’ll the best hump day today 🐪!

I posted several months back asking friends for help with something on eBay. I was trying to figure out why, even with I...
06/01/2026

I posted several months back asking friends for help with something on eBay. I was trying to figure out why, even with Immediate Payment Required turned on, some buyers still seem to have days to pay.

Thankfully, someone gave me the perfect explanation, so when it happened again this week, I knew exactly what was going on. 😅

This buyer messaged me asking the lowest I’d go on an item. It’s normally listed at $99.99 (before my current sale). I told them I’d prefer to stay above $80. Several hours later, they sent an offer for $80, and I accepted it. 👍

But then… it sat there awaiting payment for several days.

For anyone who doesn’t know, when a buyer sends an offer and the seller accepts it, the buyer gets up to 4 days to pay—even if you have Immediate Payment Required selected. 💡

After a few days, I sent them a message asking if they were still planning to purchase the item. No response. Then a couple of days later… they requested to cancel the order. 😂

Here’s where my confusion kicks in:

If the item was still awaiting payment, then no money was ever being held, right? So how is there even an order to cancel? 🤣

Obviously, I understand the back-end side of things and that an order technically exists. This is more of a rhetorical question because I just find it funny that nothing was paid for, yet I still have to cancel the order. 😆

Hopefully this helps anyone who hasn’t run into this yet—or anyone wondering why a payment didn’t go through immediately. 📦✨

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