Chat and Bother

27/08/2025

If you saw your friend's spouse on a dating app, are you telling?

27/08/2025

What would you do if you saw your friend’s spouse on a dating app? Eva and Don react to a viral AITA post where a recently divorced man spots his close friend’s wife on a dating profile.

21/08/2025

AITA for wanting to tell my friend that his wife is on a dating app?

I (45M) am recently divorced and back in the dating scene. My ex-wife cheated on me, which led to our divorce. It was a horrible experience, but I’m glad I found out. I’d rather know the truth than live in ignorance.

Since the divorce, I’ve been using dating apps, but honestly, it’s been a frustrating experience. A few days ago, I was swiping through profiles when I saw someone I immediately recognized—my ex-wife’s best friend, “Sarah” (not her real name). She’s married to one of my close friends, “Tom” (also not his real name).

Now, I feel torn. On one hand, I feel like Tom has a right to know. I know what it’s like to be cheated on, and I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. On the other hand, I’m worried about how this might look. Sarah is close to my ex-wife, and I fear they’ll spin it as me being bitter or trying to ruin other people’s marriages because mine failed.

I haven’t said anything to anyone yet, but it’s been eating at me. If I were in Tom’s position, I’d want someone to tell me. But is it really my place to say something? And if I do tell him, how do I even bring this up without sounding like I have ulterior motives?

So, AITA for wanting to tell my friend his wife is on a dating app? Or should I just stay out of it?

15/07/2025

Do you need to dress up to get on a flight or can you be comfortable? In this clip, Don and Eva have advice for young travelers who feel judged by Gen X.

13/07/2025

In this episode, Don and Eva respond to comedian Steve Brown’s viral reel from the Smitty and Dee Podcast, where he goes off about people wearing pajamas, bonnets, and carrying pillows in the airport—and young guys rocking skinny jeans.

Steve says it’s a no-go.
Don and Eva? Not so fast.

Watch as they unpack the cultural judgment and why comfort and personal style shouldn’t be up for debate. Is this just comedy—or is there a deeper message underneath the laughs? Who made Steve (or anyone) the airport dress code enforcer anyway?

02/07/2025

I’m a 49-year-old woman dating a great 52-year-old man, but he has a massive figurine collection that I can’t see myself living with. Would I be the a-hole for ending the relationship over this?

30/06/2025

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04/06/2025

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