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You’re not the problem, they just lost control. They told you that prioritizing yourself was selfish because they can’t...
10/07/2025

You’re not the problem, they just lost control. They told you that prioritizing yourself was selfish because they can’t benefit from your “no”..

Why are you so worried if their feelings are “hurt” when you are protecting the peace you never had?

Why would you ever worry about people leaving who are not serving your best and highest good? Thats the real question…

They’ll call you mean when they can’t manipulate you.They’ll call you selfish when you stop sacrificing yourself.They’ll...
08/07/2025

They’ll call you mean when they can’t manipulate you.

They’ll call you selfish when you stop sacrificing yourself.

They’ll call you cold when you stop over-explaining.

Call it whatever you want.
The boundary stays.

Always be exactly who YOU are. NEVER let anyone make you feel as though you have to hide. If they do, you gotta see it...
08/07/2025

Always be exactly who YOU are. NEVER let anyone make you feel as though you have to hide. If they do, you gotta see it for what it is.

You deserve to be you and it may mean scrapping it all and starting fresh. Your people will align with you but not on YOUR time. Focus on aligning with yourself first and foremost…anything else is a bonus

Xoxo Lori

There is magic all around you but you have to drop your limited beliefs, conditioning and fear of being different. You a...
04/07/2025

There is magic all around you but you have to drop your limited beliefs, conditioning and fear of being different.

You are focusing on people and things that no longer serve you. You are seeing things through a low vibrational lens so all you can attract is low vibrational things and people.

YOU are your first priority.. Let go of what people think you should do and embrace the unknown.

Go do some magical sh+t and find magical things that vibrate with you. If they don’t like it.. that’s a them problem.. don’t explain yourself to anyone.

Focus on assertive and direct communication. Stop giving openings for debate. You teach people what you will and will n...
03/07/2025

Focus on assertive and direct communication. Stop giving openings for debate.

You teach people what you will and will not engage with by what you tolerate. Don’t say people “take advantage” when you keep giving. They can’t take what’s not available.

Stop coddling their reactions.

You weren’t put here to fix, soothe, or carry someone who refuses to manage their own emotions.Read that again.Their cha...
28/06/2025

You weren’t put here to fix, soothe, or carry someone who refuses to manage their own emotions.

Read that again.

Their chaos isn’t your calling.
Their patterns aren’t your responsibility.
And their inability to self-regulate isn’t your problem to solve.

You’re not their lifeline—you’re a whole human being with your own limits. Start acting like it.


You are not their emotional support animal.Their guilt isn’t yours to carry.Their anger isn’t your job to fix.Their sadn...
26/06/2025

You are not their emotional support animal.

Their guilt isn’t yours to carry.
Their anger isn’t your job to fix.
Their sadness doesn’t mean you did something wrong.

You’re allowed to set a boundary without managing how they feel about it.
You’re allowed to choose peace even if it disappoints them.

Their reaction is not your responsibility.
Your healing doesn’t require their approval.

Let them feel what they feel. You don’t have to bleed for it.

It’s not kindness if it costs your identity.People-pleasing isn’t noble—it’s strategic.But strategy born in fear is stil...
24/06/2025

It’s not kindness if it costs your identity.

People-pleasing isn’t noble—it’s strategic.
But strategy born in fear is still manipulation.

29 years later and my son got to Epcot. ❤️❤️❤️ when he was younger we weren’t in a position to go. We had amazing frie...
24/06/2025

29 years later and my son got to Epcot. ❤️❤️❤️ when he was younger we weren’t in a position to go. We had amazing friends give him a Christmas when I couldn’t and many other struggles.

Life doesn’t always go as planned and you have options. Do you crumble or do you take the pieces and build stronger? That’s a CHOICE of which you choose and when it’s hardest is when you become the strongest.

I am beyond grateful to have a profession where I can guide others through their darkness and from time to time get to bring some joy and light to my own family. To experience this with him was beyond amazing. 🤩



They don’t miss you.They miss the version of you who tolerated the bare minimum.Who explained yourself to avoid their ta...
22/06/2025

They don’t miss you.
They miss the version of you who tolerated the bare minimum.
Who explained yourself to avoid their tantrums.
Who dimmed your light so they could shine.

You’re not the villain for growing.
You’re just not their puppet anymore.

Drop a 🔥 if you’ve had to leave someone who only loved your silence.

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Staying in a relationship because you have guilt will breed resentment. Energy can’t be faked but actions and words can...
17/06/2025

Staying in a relationship because you have guilt will breed resentment.

Energy can’t be faked but actions and words can. So even if you are staying for kids, vows or some other reason, the effect will be opposite for you.

You are allowed to be your priority and if you feel as though you are checked out but stay, you will be resentful in the long run.

❓Have you ever felt guilty for leaving but found joy of reclaiming yourself?

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