14/06/2024
Stop begging me money biko stop
This is getting out of hand and MUST stop! I don't know what I am doing that is giving some the idea that I am related to Dangote, Adeleke, Otedolla or even Musk but Enough is enought. No be Facebook I dey like others dey post? Do I have any position in Nigeria or any other country? Some that I even see as better than me in all raminfications are coming to me to beg me for money. Even people with both parents alive, whose parents are big people, and they also big, coming to me, a childhood orphan, who is known for posting on FB, to beg me for money. Like what is this? Even those I voluntarily gift money to frequently are coming to beg me for money. If I give in and carry all my money give una so how will I take care of myself and my dependants? How will I dash others money of my own volition? STOP BEGGING ME FOR MONEY BIKO. Enough is enough.
Imagine this; a yound man I put on monthly salary, I don't know anything about him, I have no idea where he is from, I know nothing about him, just felt like it and put him on a monthly salary for a year; mind you, all those on monthly pay from me here get various amounts monthly, not specif, but they must get something, so this dude inboxes me and tells me to pay him for a whole year at once as he has something to do with the money. This a pay you are not working for in anyway shape or form, and you want the pay at once. Now what if I don't have it to give you, what if paying you and others monthly is easier for me that doling it out at once? I was so pi**ed, but I decided to just go ahead and give him the whole money and move on.
Then there are many I send money to on my own volition freequently and infrequently. They did not ask for it, I asked for their account details and started doing it. Some of them will come to make to make huge financial requests, why? The ones I gave you, you did not request, so now because I have been doing that on my own, you feel my money must be excess and you have to request a lot from me. If I GIVE as you request, how will I do for others how I have been doing for you. I should then carry all my money and give to you all on request and stay broke naa. Guys, be considerate, you never made me give you money, don't suddenly start feeling you need to make me. Stop putting others in an uncomfortable position for your own selfish reason. If you take advantage of my familiarity with you and decide to beg me money, na large NO you go hear. Stop.
Don't get carried away by my dashing money. It is part of my life. Even in America wey them no dey dash money, I dash money taya when I lived there. In America I will throw parties and pay the flight tickets of those coming from afar and dash everyone that came money, no matter your status, just for the sake of it as they did not ask for it. Dashing people money makes me happy but please don't see it like I have so much, no way, I do that whether I am solvent or insolvent, that is just my lifestyle, ask anyone from my own town of Ehugbo. Dashing money is my hobby. If I in my town, If I go out with 500k or 10k, none is coming back with me, I can greet for Africa, as I dey greet na so the money dey reduce until it is gone, that is just me. It don't mean I am richer than others, or that I am even rich. Here on Facebook Naija, there is no one that has sent others more money than me here. Even those bigger and richer than me, I have reuested for their account details and dashed them money. I don't dash based on status, I dash based on say I want dash. Don't see my dashing as a telling I have excess money, do not because it is not that way.
Una go leave people that are looting billions of our common wealth through politics or some power position to be begging a facebook poster money just because I am not voicing out my own problems, and dashing away the part of the small wey I get. Why should I advertise my problems, who will buy it?
Inbox? It is maddd. I hired someone to handle my inbox and bring to my attention what I need to be aware of, because the begging there is on another level. You are begging someone known for posting on FB like you N50 million for your medical bills. Begging for a Federal job and other jobs, when I am yet to give myself job, when I don't have any power to do such. Multi-dimensional begging that even has me believing I must be some Arab Royalty with endless money until I shake myself back to reality.
I have been following you for years and you have not given me money? But you are giving others. Really? Have you giving money to all those following you? You are not following me as a favor, you are following me because you want to, just like I am following others for information or their style of posting, not to do them any favors. I will dash anyone I wanna dash my money to. I don't even check whether anyone I wanna dash money follow me or not and don't care.
I have made it open here that I am not a philanthropist, I know even reach. You ignore those calling themselves a philanthropist to come and be begging me money, why?
Give♧ways here: I started what is known as give♧way on our side of FB. I was the 1st to do it when a platform I managed called Ndi Igbo page was the number 1 page in Naija and where everyone gathered. This was a time people did not post on their personal walls, rather they gathered on pages to state their views etc, and Ndi Igbo then was the hottest. I am giving you this back story to let you know that I will always be a master when it comes to give♧ways which I renamed Giting. Now don't assume I am loaded because you see constant giftings here. The giftings here are not done with my money. Only about 5% of giftings you see here are done with my money, the rest are paid for by my clients for one reason or another. Only the giftings I do for my town which takes place in another page entirely are fully done with my money. But gitings on MUN which is for all are paid for by my clients.
I love my money to go round: If I used to dash you money and stopped, you have done nothing wrong, I wanna dash others, I want my money to reach as many people as possible. DON'T FEEL ENTITLED to my money please. Feel entitled to yours. I can decide to dash anyone as much as I want or as many times as I want, it is my decision, it is my money, don't put eye in who I dash. You can do the dashing yourself if you wanna contril the pace.
This lifestle no be voluntary, na how person be. It is very costly, but it makes me happy to see people smile over recieving something from me, so it's fine by me. But don't take umbrage and see me as rich and start begging me money. Even if I am rich I did not suffer to make my money so I can give it to you to solve your problems while mine gets solved by spirits.
As I posted here last year: What does Maria do for a living? If someone asks you what does Maria Ude Nwachi do for a living, you will say she posts stuff on Facebook and you will be right. I am not in any power position in Nigeria. I am an orphan since childhood meaning I am not some daughter of some big man. I am my own breadwinner since I was a teen.
Thank you all, Maria Ude Nwachi.
