
22/07/2025
This , I’m thinking about the emotional labor of living with an invisible disability.
For too long, people with chronic conditions have had to prove that their experience is real—navigating dismissal, judgment, and minimization, often from those with the best intentions.
“People with invisible disabilities want to be seen for who they are, and receive the appropriate support to get through their daily lives. By their very nature, invisible conditions need to be explained. They require emotional labor on the part of the individual with the disability to create understanding and validation from other people.”
Support is growing. And that’s good news. But we still have a long way to go in building a world where invisible disabilities don’t require constant justification.
One study I share in the book reminds us why this is so hard: we tend to project our own feelings onto others. If we’re feeling good, we downplay others’ pain. If we’re struggling, we might assume others are too. Empathy requires stretching past that default—especially when someone’s experience is invisible to us.
Here’s to honoring the full spectrum of disability—and creating space for stories that don’t always show on the surface.
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