07/08/2026
Recording an entire episode on this right now so prepare for a rant episode. I’m fuming. I was going to wait until the trial was over and we have all the facts, but the online discourse I’m seeing is making me sick to my fu***ng stomach, truly.
When I think about what is happening to Patrick Clancy it makes me think of my brother, a father of two young children. I think of what he would have felt finding his children like that, what he would’ve felt realizing it was his wife/their mother who was responsible, and what he would feel if people then accused HIM of doing it himself and framing her. It shatters my heart to even think about it.
To be clear (bc people online like to twist words) I’m not arguing that he was a perfect husband, that he didn’t do bad things at times, that he didn’t make mistakes. I’m not saying that we shouldn’t identify any mistakes he made - I think we should so we can learn from what we can.
This trial and the discourse is making me think so differently about the world of true crime. To accuse someone of taking the lives of their own children WHEN IT IS A KNOWN AND UNDISPUTED FACT that he did not do it is absolutely despicable and anyone making videos of that should be absolutely ashamed of themselves.