09/09/2026
“Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something that needs our life-sustaining support and aid." [Theodore Rilke]
Kareen King a magnificent artist and drama therapist wows several elders all day on Wednesdays. This morning Kareen told us a story about an elderly woman who was too afraid to die. Just before she passed the Director of Nursing cradled her tenderly in her arms, being as close to her as her breath and heartbeat. The nurse rocked and hummed to her, then imparted crucial last-minute instructions to this woman resisting death ,'Right now, you are safe in the arms of Jesus."
The next day the elder's son came to collect her belongings and staff found out that this woman, who beat her son badly as a child, used to punish herself by not sleeping on a mattress, giving herself only the mock- comfort of sleeping under the bed on a hard floor. We'll never know, but maybe the woman didn't think she deserved a mattress.