09/10/2025
Even your “YES” has a birthday!
You can always catch me smiling but many won’t know that the past years made me reconsider in several moments whether I wanted to even acknowledge and celebrate a decision I made 7 years ago; some birthdays be like that 🤷🏾♀️ ehhh you know what I mean. Although I’ve gained so many great things, I can’t always ignore what I’ve lost...in the hands of people, even those I trusted as friends. People think that being friendly is easy and that it means you should accept EVERYTHING with ease, smh...that’s far from the truth.
Being friendly has everything to do with being able to forgive people who might not deserve it, being able to move on from blatant hurt even when no one is sorry, being able to have grace for folks who don’t want to grow mentally or spiritually, and most importantly, being friendly means trusting God even when you can’t see the strength to do so in the midst of dealing with unfriendly people. That’s not easy!!! But baby, it has MADE me who I am today and I’m proud I stuck it through. Resilient in all and persistent in my pursuit to fulfill God’s calling on my life even if makes no sense to anyone else.
This past year has truly sharpened me and challenged me in so many ways. In friendships, in relationships, in career, in business, and even in God. But beacuse I refused to let any of those challenges and natural occurrences stop me from KNOWING and having FAITH in what God said was an expected end, so many of those things put things into perspective and proper position. One thing I know, is my story isn’t supposed to be identical to anyone else’s, it’s supposed to impact differently.
So this year, I’m grateful. I have gratitude. I am graced and I’m ready to take over assigned territory!
I’m so excited for those who are connected to what God is doing with “this friendship thing” because it’s HUGE! Many people have missed out on their purposeful selves because of past friendships breakups, and I’m here to help you transform🧡
Friendly Plug 🔌 in the comments!