09/03/2026
The internet is full of women talking about the Divine Feminine & reclaiming our feminine power - all of these really fcking important things; and YET…and I say this because I’ve been caught in this snare myself…doing it in such a way that is literally counter to feminine energetics.
Insta marketing is designed to have us focus on GETTING.
GET attention.
GET buyers.
GET clients.
GET GET GET.
Be the shiniest!
Perfect the words!
Make sure the pictures & images & caption & music are just so to GET (attention, a sale, a like?).
And here’s what I’ve noticed:
Every single time I feel the pull of that, every single time I try to “make it GOOD and just RIGHT” so I can GET anything at all, an essential part of me SHRINKS.
GETTING is NOT the energetic of the mature feminine when she is aligned, in her rightness.
She does not chase or shrink to GET anything at all.
(Side note: I used to date this way: Look just right to GET him to like you; do the thing to GET his approval. Yuck. And no more)
Here’s the conundrum many women face in this marketing world that has commodified our gifts:
We hate it BUT we feel like we “have to” if we are to have an online business (and let’s face it, businesses rely on clients and yes, money, and yes, selling, to stay alive)?
The mature feminine, and the Divine Feminine working through us, is coded to GIVE.
But NOT the martyr-like over-giving we’ve been socialized into.
GIVING from overflow. Giving from abundance.
Giving her love, her wisdom, her joy, her gifts that naturally flow through her from a place of juicy and alive fullness.
So HOW do we get “full” if we are not trying to GET?
How do we get FULL if we are not playing the algorithm game of getting attention?
How do we get full if we are not “marketing” the just-right way?
How do we get full if we don’t make viral carousels and quote tiles (frankly I hope to never make another canva-carousel again).
I have some ideas.
What they don’t include:
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