Lisa Ratner Matchmaking

12/16/2025

Thank you .grooming for making look so handsome for the holidaze! 🐶🐾🕎🎄❄️💕

12/14/2025

Helping set the of the most couples kissing under the National Mistletoe with my first successful match as a matchmaker… priceless!💘🎄🕎💕

11/04/2025

Business trips can look glamorous from the outside.

Flights. Hotels. Client dinners. The shiny badge. The one time my name was on the screen of the black car airport pick-up. 😉

But when you’re single, work travel can feel lonely.

I spent years traveling solo for work.

The middle-of-nowhere hotel rooms.
Quiet dinners for one, which could be a "bed picnic" with snacks from the office. hashtag
Colleagues with kids gushing about the thrill of a night alone in a hotel room.

Even surrounded by people, I often felt separate.

Questions about a husband or children came up by default.

This week, I’m heading to a matcmakers conference and my husband is joining. My first work trip with a partner. 👫

It feels exciting and strange all at once.
It has me reflecting on all the years I traveled as a single person and how so many of us carry that same quiet weight on the road.

My next blog explores what work travel looks like when you’re single.

The loneliness. The assumptions.
And how to make it feel less isolating and maybe even empowering.

✨ Coming soon.

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10/10/2025

It’s real. It’s raw.

For singles in the DMV who’ve been there, done that. Or you’re in the thick of it. Or thinking about “getting out there”, I highly recommend seeing this show!

Trust me. You’ll feel seen.
Xoxo

08/13/2025

What happens when you put the best matchmakers in the world on a cruise ship? 🚢

I’m counting down the days until my very first Matchmakers Alliance Conference in November and I can't wait to find out! 😍

As a newer matchmaker, I’m eager to keep building my knowledge, learning directly from the top experts in our field, and forming meaningful relationships with my fellow matchmaker colleagues. I know these connections will lead to powerful lasting collaborations that help us all better serve our clients and continue to elevate the industry. 💗

5 nights. Virgin Voyages. The brightest minds in the dating industry all in one place. ✨

Interested? 📍 Register here: https://lnkd.in/eanMW9Sg


Lisa Ratner

08/06/2025

For my DC-based Jewish singles btw 35-49, got plans next Wednesday night, 8/13?

Miriam Levitin, fellow DC-matchmaker and founder of Luv with Lev, and I are hosting another Jewish dating event.💞

This isn’t your typical boring singles mixer. Trust us. Your future self will thank you for going. 😉

Spots are limited—snag your ticket today! 👉
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/sunset-shmoozing-a-jewish-dating-social-tickets-1501693779519?aff=oddtdtcreator

Thank you in advance for sharing/ fowarding to any DC-based Jewish singles (35-49) in your network who may be interested in joining us. 🙌

06/12/2025

🗓One year ago this week, I took the biggest leap of my career—and my heart.

I said goodbye to decades of business attire and boardroom rhythms (but not the lessons learned there!) to pursue something that had been building for years: launching Lisa Ratner Matchmaking & Coaching.

In just 12 months, I've
💟 Helped clients find meaningful connections
💟 Discovered the joy in coaching clients to date with intention
💟 Embraced every twist, challenge, and triumph along the way
💟 And am reminded daily that relationships are Everything

Reflecting on the past year, I’m filled with deep gratitude... for every early client who trusted me to guide their journey, and for each colleague, collaborator, friend, and family member who cheered me on. And a special shout out to my husband & #1 fan, Hoffer, who reminds me daily to keep going and say hi to that cute stranger across the room (or dog park 😉 ).

Here’s to more breakthroughs, growth moments, and love-filled stories. Curious to learn more or know someone intrigued by matchmaking? Let’s chat! 😍

Read more about this first year: https://www.lisaratnermatchmaking.com/blog/one-year-in-cracking-open-a-whole-new-chapter

05/27/2025

Wedding season is upon us… again.

And if you’re riding solo, that invite can stir up a lot of feelings.

It just published a new blog about what it’s like to navigate weddings as a single guest—something I did for many years. At first, the singles table was a blast (flirting over hors d'oeuvres? Yes, please). But as the years went on, it started to feel more like a social penalty box in the back corner of the reception hall.

If you’ve ever cried in the bathroom during a slow song, danced in a third-wheel group hug, or dreamed of bringing a plus-one but didn’t get one—you are not alone.

In the post, I’m sharing a few mindset shifts and practical tips that I wish I had back then. But first, I want to hear from you.

💌 Do you have a singles table story?
💃 Did you meet someone and have a wedding weekend fling?
😭 Feel invisible? Cry in the bathroom? All of the above?

Comment below, message me, or reach out at [email protected] �And if you want to talk, I offer free intro calls—no pressure, just real conversation.�

📅 Book a time here: https://calendly.com/lisaratnermatchmaking/intro-chat-with-lisa?back=1&month=2025-05

Read the blog here: The Dreaded Singles Table → https://www.lisaratnermatchmaking.com/blog/the-dreaded-singles-table

XO,�Lisa

Wedding season is upon us… again. And for those riding solo, that invite can sure stir up some feelings.

05/01/2025

For most of my 30s, I carried a quiet shame about being single—especially at work, where family updates were the currency of connection. 😔

I wish I’d owned my singleness more boldly. It was full of growth, adventure, and self-discovery—and it deserved just as much airtime as weddings and baby showers. 💫

If you’ve ever felt "less than" at work because you're single, I wrote this for you.�You’re not behind. You’re on your own timeline—and it’s beautiful. 🌅

✨ Read the full post here: https://www.lisaratnermatchmaking.com/blog/learning-to-own-my-singleness-at-work

For most of my 30s, I carried a quiet shame about being single. While friends and colleagues were planning weddings, having babies, and coordinating school pickups, I was still swiping, still hoping, still searching. At work, I’d overhear my cubemate on the phone with her husband deciding what's f...

04/25/2025

Hello my FB lovelies... I'd love to see the power of this network, as part of my search strategy for several active matchmaking clients. 🔍💕

If you, or someone you know, might be a compatible match for one of the two profiles below, get in touch via the comments, DM or email: [email protected]. 📲

I'm offering a $75 referral fee if one of your referrals goes on a date with a matchmaking client.💰

SEEKING:

Single MEN in their 60s, 70s, & 80s; they are physically and socially active, live a healthy lifestyle, and are seeking a romantic partner/companion to spend time and experience life with. Ideally based in NYC, DC, or east coast.

Single WOMEN (preferably Jewish or non-religious) btw the ages of 24-35; fit & attractive; fun-loving, smart with a healthy active lifestyle; Close with family and ready for marriage and kids with the right partner; Driven and financially stable with an established career. Ideally based in NYC, DC, or east coast.

Let's make some matches! 💘💘💘

Send a message to learn more