Jamir Hezekiah

Jamir Hezekiah đź’”lf you can't find true love, focus on working hard, earning money, and enjoying the peace of single life.

Prioritize your happiness and peace over forcing something that isn't right.✍️

"You need someone who wants to be there when it’s messy and when it’s hard, not just when it’s fun and when it’s conveni...
06/22/2025

"You need someone who wants to be there when it’s messy and when it’s hard, not just when it’s fun and when it’s convenient. And you need someone who chooses you when it might not be the easiest choice. And you need someone who would rather do nothing with you than anything in the world with someone else."

"I can’t give you rainbows without my storms. There’s no sunshine without my hurricane. My love, there will be days wher...
06/22/2025

"I can’t give you rainbows without my storms. There’s no sunshine without my hurricane. My love, there will be days where I am the hardest person to choose, where I can be the most distant human being but trust me when I say that those are also the days when I’ll be needing all your love.

Staying with me isn’t always a paradise, most days are just ugly and unbearable. I wish you’d choose me still. I hope to overcome these struggles with you because after all, I’d do the same for you."

To earn your wife's respect, act respectably.  To build trust and safety, stop abusing her. To achieve financial transpa...
06/20/2025

To earn your wife's respect, act respectably. To build trust and safety, stop abusing her. To achieve financial transparency, be financially responsible. To inspire pride, do things that make her proud. To alleviate nagging, spend quality time together. To avoid conflict with your friends, choose your friends wisely. To make her proud to be your wife, actively work to make her happy. To gain her support, share your vision and allow her to contribute.

"Sometimes all you need is a lovely hug."
06/20/2025

"Sometimes all you need is a lovely hug."

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06/20/2025

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06/16/2025

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"Scary part about life is that any day can be the last day you talk to someone."The fleeting nature of time casts a shad...
06/14/2025

"Scary part about life is that any day can be the last day you talk to someone."

The fleeting nature of time casts a shadow over our interactions, reminding us that any conversation could be our last with a loved one. This sobering reality underscores the importance of cherishing each moment, of expressing our love and appreciation without hesitation.

Let's not take our relationships for granted; instead, let's fill our days with genuine connection, heartfelt words, and acts of kindness. Every interaction is a precious gift, an opportunity to leave a positive mark on the lives of others.

Embrace this awareness, not with fear, but with a renewed sense of purpose, and let it inspire you to live each day with intention and love.

If your partner hurts you in front of your kids, it’s not just about you anymore.It’s about what they’re learning. What ...
06/10/2025

If your partner hurts you in front of your kids, it’s not just about you anymore.

It’s about what they’re learning. What they’re watching.

Your daughter is watching what love looks like.
Your son is learning how to treat a woman.

If he can’t show you respect in front of them, leave.
Because the cycle doesn’t stop until you break it.

Your kids deserve better.
And so do you.

It's easy to forgive a cheating husband, but it's hard to forget the pain. People often say that forgiveness is a way to...
06/09/2025

It's easy to forgive a cheating husband,
but it's hard to forget the pain. People often
say that forgiveness is a way to ease pain.

Move forward without tying yourself to past hurts.
But for women who have been betrayed,
forgiveness is probably the easy part -
the hard part is forgetting.

Because trust is broken, even if it is repaired,
it will leave scars. The wife can choose to stay,
choose to tolerate, choose to take care of the family.

But the trauma she suffered was unforgettable,
just saying she would forget.
She may not talk about the past,
but the painful memories remain,
in the quiet moments of the night
when she suddenly wakes up.

At a time when her heart was filled with doubt.
So, if your husband made a mistake but wants to make amends,
what you need to do is not just apologize or promise,
but take the time and action to make it happen.

Don't just expect your wife to forgive you,
but make her feel safe, make her believe that
she won't have to endure the pain anymore.

And if the wife chooses to stay, she must learn to heal herself.
Don't forget the past, but move forward without bringing the past to hurt...

“Let’s stop running from what we both know to be true: we can’t live without each other. Let’s meet again, not to dwell ...
06/09/2025

“Let’s stop running from what we both know to be true: we can’t live without each other. Let’s meet again, not to dwell on the past but to embrace the love we’ve always shared. No overthinking, no doubts! just raw, real love worth fighting for..”

Resentment doesn’t explode all at once.It starts in the quiet.In the sigh she lets out when she’s cleaning up after ever...
06/09/2025

Resentment doesn’t explode all at once.
It starts in the quiet.
In the sigh she lets out when she’s cleaning up after everyone again. In the moment she cancels her plans because no one else stepped up. In the way her voice dims a little more each time she’s unheard.
It starts when she says “I’m fine”... but she’s not.

When she smiles through dinner, but inside she’s holding back a scream.
Resentment is born from imbalance—not just in effort, but in emotional recognition.
She’s not asking for a parade. She’s asking to be seen. To not feel like the default parent, the emotional manager, the one who has to keep it all running while her own needs get filed under “someday.”
You want to save your relationship?
Start noticing again.
Noticing how heavy her days have been. Noticing the things she does without being asked. Noticing that she’s showing up for everyone but herself—and maybe she’s tired of doing it alone.
Resentment doesn’t mean she stopped loving you.

It means she stopped believing that love includes her rest, her peace, her voice.
Fixing it isn’t about grand gestures.
It’s about consistent presence. Daily partnership. Actual care.
Because the woman who’s silently slipping away isn’t ungrateful.
She’s just done feeling invisible.

It’s lonely when you’re the one holding the relationship together with duct tape and good intentions.You plan the date n...
06/09/2025

It’s lonely when you’re the one holding the relationship together with duct tape and good intentions.

You plan the date nights. You initiate the talks. You reach for connection when things feel distant. And they respond—barely.
You tell yourself it’s a phase. That maybe they’re just stressed. That if you just love them a little harder, try a little more, they’ll meet you halfway

But halfway never comes.
And slowly, resentment grows. Not because you stopped loving them—but because you started forgetting yourself.
You became so focused on keeping the relationship alive that you forgot to ask:
“Is this love feeding me… or just draining me?”
One-sided love isn’t love—it’s emotional labor disguised as loyalty.
And the truth? You don’t have to beg to be chosen. You don’t have to keep proving your worth to someone who’s stopped seeing your effort.

You deserve a love that pours back. A love that says, “I see you. I’m here. Let’s do this together.”
So if you’re the only one trying, it’s okay to pause. To step back. To ask if this is partnership… or performance.
Because love shouldn’t feel like you're auditioning to be kept.

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