06/09/2025
It's easy to forgive a cheating husband,
but it's hard to forget the pain. People often
say that forgiveness is a way to ease pain.
Move forward without tying yourself to past hurts.
But for women who have been betrayed,
forgiveness is probably the easy part -
the hard part is forgetting.
Because trust is broken, even if it is repaired,
it will leave scars. The wife can choose to stay,
choose to tolerate, choose to take care of the family.
But the trauma she suffered was unforgettable,
just saying she would forget.
She may not talk about the past,
but the painful memories remain,
in the quiet moments of the night
when she suddenly wakes up.
At a time when her heart was filled with doubt.
So, if your husband made a mistake but wants to make amends,
what you need to do is not just apologize or promise,
but take the time and action to make it happen.
Don't just expect your wife to forgive you,
but make her feel safe, make her believe that
she won't have to endure the pain anymore.
And if the wife chooses to stay, she must learn to heal herself.
Don't forget the past, but move forward without bringing the past to hurt...