Shell Sawyer, CDFA Your Financial Specialist through Divorce & Beyond

12/01/2025

✨ Black Friday Sale – Divorce Planner & Guide Services ✨

Are you contemplating divorce in 2026? Don’t leave your future up to chance. Step into the new year with clarity, confidence, and a personalized strategy that sets you up for success.

For a limited time, I’m offering:
- 10% off each individual strategy session
- Buy 4 sessions, get the 5th FREE

My Divorce Planner & Guide services are designed to help you:
- Prepare and organize for the journey ahead
- Navigate the divorce process with emotional safety and financial clarity
- Move into your next chapter with strength and confidence

This Black Friday sale is your opportunity to invest in yourself and walk into 2026 ready—with a plan, not fear.

👉 Learn more and book your sessions today at: www.findingstrengthwithshell.com

Your future deserves a strategy. Let’s build it together. 💚

11/28/2025

🌟 Black Friday Deal: Clarity & Confidence for Your Next Chapter 🌟

Divorce doesn’t have to feel overwhelming, and you deserve a plan that brings peace of mind and financial clarity.

✨ Special Offer (through Dec 31, 2025):
• 10% OFF a single Strategy Session
• OR purchase 4 Strategy Sessions and receive the 5th one FREE

This is your chance to step into 2026 with strength, strategy, and support.

Whether you’re just beginning to contemplate divorce or already navigating the process, I’ll walk beside you—helping you prepare, organize, and move forward with confidence.

📅 Book a complimentary consultation now to lock in this Black Friday deal and start your journey from fear to empowerment.

👉 DM me or comment below to reserve your sessions today

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]
860.613.5575

11/26/2025

🦃✨ Your First Thanksgiving After Divorce ✨🦃

If this is your first holiday season while going through or after divorce, please remember: kindness to yourself matters most.

When I was newly divorced, I tried to make Thanksgiving feel as “normal” as possible for my daughter. But the truth? It wasn’t normal at all. And that’s okay.

Trying to force normal for others can leave you feeling even more depleted.

Instead, give yourself permission to:
🌿 Create new traditions that feel authentic to you and your family
✌🏽 Keep things simple—you don’t have to do it all
💚 Allow space for rest and reflection instead of perfection
🗣️ Be honest with yourself about what feels supportive, not performative

The holidays may look different now, but that doesn’t mean they're any less meaningful. Sometimes, it’s in the quiet shifts that we find strength.

💬 Comment “holiday” below if you’d like me to share some ways I survived my first holiday season after divorce.

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]
860.613.5575

11/22/2025

11/19/2025

🚪On the Doorstep of Divorce: Blame Keeps You Stuck.

I often meet clients who walk in carrying heavy stories:
“He did this.” “She always said that.” “If only they had…”

And while those stories matter, they’re real and have shaped the journey. Staying rooted in blame keeps you anchored in the past.

Divorce shouldn't be about proving who was right. It’s about building what comes next.

When you shift from who caused the pain to what needs to happen now, you start making decisions that protect your peace, your children, and your future.

✨ Let go of the courtroom mindset. Step into the clarity of your next chapter. ✨

Contact Shell today to help you through the process and focus on designing your future!

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]
860.613.5575

11/18/2025

💡 “I already have an attorney… do I really need a CDFA?”
Yes.

And here’s why:
Your attorney is there to protect your legal rights.
I’m here to protect your financial future.

As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, I help you:
• Understand the long-term impact of every financial decision
• Avoid costly mistakes that might not show up until after the divorce
• Get clear on what you need vs. what you’re being offered
• Build a plan that supports your next chapter ⁓ not just your settlement

Attorneys handle the law. ✨I handle the life that comes after. ✨

If you’re contemplating divorce or already in the process, I’ll help you move from fear to financial clarity ⁓ with strategy, support, and strength.

📩 DM me or comment “CLARITY” to learn how we can work together.

11/17/2025

🌙 Thinking about divorce in 2026? You’re not alone.

Maybe you haven’t told anyone yet.

Perhaps you’re still lying awake at night asking:
💭 Will I be okay?
💭 Can I afford this?
💭 What don’t I know that could hurt me?

These questions are heavy, but they’re also a signal. A sign that it’s time to stop spinning in fear and start building a plan.

As a Divorce Planner and Guide, I help women like you move from quiet contemplation to confident preparation.

Together, we’ll create a strategy that honors your heart and protects your future › emotionally, financially, and logistically.

✨ You don’t have to wait until everything falls apart. You can start getting ready now ⁓ with clarity, courage, and support.

📩 DM me or comment “READY” if you’re thinking about divorce in 2026 and want to explore your next step.

11/15/2025

Caring co-parenting extends beyond simply sharing responsibilities; it plays a pivotal role in fostering a nurturing environment for children. Implementing effective co-parenting strategies can yield significant benefits for both parents and their children, enhancing overall family dynamics.

For example, a specific client decided to attend events together. When parents attend events like soccer games together, they send a powerful message of unity to their child. This not only boosts the child's self-esteem and sense of belonging but also positively impacts their mental health by reassuring them that both parents are invested in their happiness and achievements. The shared experience fosters an atmosphere of support, leading to improved emotional stability for the child.

Another client does regular check-ins; check-ins between co-parents can be transformative as well. By dedicating time to discuss their child's needs and feelings, parents can prevent misunderstandings and reduce conflicts. This practice fosters open communication, enabling parents to navigate challenges together and celebrate their child's accomplishments as a united team. When children see their parents working as a team, it strengthens their own emotional well-being and reinforces a sense of security.

Ultimately, discovering strategies that prioritize both emotional well-being and effective communication can create a harmonious co-parenting journey. Simple actions, such as collaborating on a family calendar or sharing joyful moments, can yield profound benefits, enriching the experiences of both parents and children. Adopting these practices can lead to a more supportive and engaged family environment, promoting lasting positive outcomes for everyone involved.

Find out about more strategies that can help you better co-parent your children by working with Shell.

Contract her today for a free consultation.

Shell Sawyer, Caring Co-Parent
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]
860.613.5575

11/07/2025

3 Things I Wish I Knew Before Divorce 💔➡️💪

1️⃣ Divorce isn’t just a legal process — it’s a life redesign.
I thought I was just signing papers. Turns out, I was rewriting my future. Financially. Emotionally. Spiritually.

2️⃣ Healing doesn’t follow a checklist.
Some days I felt free. Others, I missed what never really worked. Grief is layered. Healing is nonlinear. Grace is essential.

3️⃣ Clarity is power.
The moment I stopped asking “What’s fair?” and started asking “What’s true for me?” — everything shifted.

If you’re in the thick of it, or just beginning… you’re not alone.
There’s strength in your story. There’s clarity in your questions.
And there’s a future waiting to be rewritten — by you. 💫

What do you wish you knew about divorce that you could share with others?

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]
860.613.5575

11/05/2025

When divorce is on your doorstep, everything feels uncertain.

That’s why I wrote "You Are Not Alone: Your Guide for When Divorce is on Your Doorstep" — not just to offer comfort, but to give you tools.

Inside, you’ll find the exact templates I wish I had:
📝 Template for creating a parenting plan and considerations for your children.
💬 Checklists for pre-and post-divorce aspects
💡 Worksheets to help you organize your finances and your thoughts

These aren’t just pages — they’re lifelines.

Because you deserve to feel prepared, not panicked.
Supported, not scattered.
And most of all… not alone.

✨ Grab your copy of the book and start with the page that speaks to your heart today.
https://a.co/d/hIMtSMj

In this introspective exploration, Shell Sawyer guides readers through the complexities of love, loss, and resilience, focusing on marriage, divorce, and the transformative power of new beginnings. Utilizing the symbolism of doors, the book encourages embracing change and recognizing new oppor...

10/31/2025

🎃 Don’t Let Financial Fear Haunt You This Halloween 👻

Divorce can feel like walking through a haunted house blindfolded, ghosts of “what if,” skeletons in the budget closet, and the eerie whisper of “Will I be okay?”

But here’s the truth: Fear thrives in the dark. Shine a light on your finances, and you’ll see it’s not a monster—it’s a map.

🕯️ This season, let’s trade fright for insight:
• Dust off your financial cobwebs
• Unmask hidden expenses
• Cast a spell of clarity over your future

You don’t need to face the shadows alone.

🧡🖤 Because the scariest thing isn’t divorce—it’s staying stuck in fear🖤🧡

Let's have a complimentary consultation today to discuss how I can illuminate your finances - guiding you from spooky uncertainty to confident steps forward.
https://calendly.com/findingstrengthwithshell/exploratoryconversation

Finding Strength 💚 Creating Clarity 💚 Together
www.findingstrengthwithshell.com
[email protected]
860.613.5575