11/30/2025
For almost 10 years, I’ve had the absolute privilege of DJing countless weddings. To me, one of the most sacred and memorable moments throughout the night takes place during the special dances. This includes not only the bride and groom, but the parent dances as well.
It is in that short window of time where you catch a glimpse of patience, endurance, sacrifice, anticipation, joy, pride, endearment, turning the page, and so much more.
Why do I say that? Because I know what those moments feel like. I experienced every bit of that when I danced with my mom on April 17th, 2010. Every time I pressed play for another groom (or bride) to dance with their mom, I would pause for a second and think about her, about us, and the gift of answered prayer wrapped up in that moment.
As I prepare for 2026 and beyond, there is one word that rises to the top for me. Gratitude.
On Tuesday, November 25th, my mom, Janet Robertson, went to be with her Lord and Savior after a long and hard battle with long-term kidney and heart complications.
One thing I know for sure, which our special song repeated over and over again, is that my mom was my Perfect Fan. When this photo was taken, she was alive and well, but it speaks to me even more today. While she crossed over to be with Jesus, carrying that angelic glow, one thing will never change. Her smile lit up my world. Even in moments when I felt undeserving or unworthy, she never stopped loving me. She chose me again and again.
For that, I am profoundly grateful. And I will do everything I can to make you proud, Momma.
Until we see each other again, rest in the arms of Jesus. I love you (more than I could ever know).