
08/13/2025
Hey Momma, how are you doing? Yeah me too.
We are both, are staring at the calendar, watching the days are ticking down until we get to be that mom who posts on Senior Sunday. Hiding behind our phones while tears stream down our cheeks, remembering all those trips to the zoo, trying to celebrate our newly minted seniors, soon to be minted newly college students.
Wasn't it just yesterday that they were boarding the school bus while you silently cried that the part of your heart that lives outside your chest is starting school?
The years that passed between then and now have been much faster than you could have ever thought. That older mom at the post office was right, the days are long but the years are short.
And here you sit, making a Pinterest board of ideas. You have started planning for senior announcements, senior party and getting those last few minutes before they are grown and flown documented.
I know you want to organize it all and tell them what you want. I'm there too. But this is one of the first things you need to let go of what you want l, maybe just a little and let them decide what them want.
Gasp, yes Momma, it's time to channel your inner Elsa and let it go.
Just like your grown baby's future, it's not about you, it's about them. How do they see themselves? How do they want to remember their senior year? What stories do they want to tell?
Now before you send out the pitchforks and torches for me, hear me out.
I'm a firm believer that your senior's photo session needs to accommodate both sides. It's not just about them and not just about you. It's a meeting of the minds and a conscious effort to compromise.
Yes they get to put the coolest filter on the otherwise vibrantly timeless photos that you will cherish.
Working with your senior will get you far more than fighting with them. This year is our last chance (for many of us) to live close to them while they make small adult inclined decisions.
Wanna chat about how we can work together?