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22/07/2025

Give Baami Agba Alfanla one name, mine is "ABIWA PELE BI ADABA" 🎉👏💫

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18/07/2025

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Marriage Is Not for the Defensive, Denying, or Blame-Shifting WomanLet’s get real:You can’t build anything with someone ...
18/07/2025

Marriage Is Not for the Defensive, Denying, or Blame-Shifting Woman

Let’s get real:

You can’t build anything with someone who never thinks they’re wrong.

And in today’s world?

That woman is everywhere.

She can’t say sorry. She can’t admit fault. She can’t take correction.

But she can cry.

She can twist the truth. She can make you look like the problem.

Let’s break it down.

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1. Every Fight Ends With Her Feelings—Not the Facts

You caught her lying?

She’ll say, “You’re attacking me.”

You correct her gently?

She says, “You always criticize me.”

You set boundaries?

She starts crying—and says you’re being cold.

She turns real issues into emotional distractions.

You came to solve a problem.

She came to shift the blame.

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2. Accountability Feels Like an Attack to Her

You say: “This wasn’t okay.”

She hears: “You don’t love me.”

You say: “We need to fix this.”

She hears: “You’re trying to control me.”

To her, being wrong is worse than being evil.

So instead of growth?

You get gaslighted.

Instead of change?

You get chaos.

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3. She’s the Common Denominator in Every Story—But Still the Victim

– “My ex was toxic.”
– “My boss hated me.”
– “My friends betrayed me.”

Somehow, she’s never the problem.

Just extremely unlucky.

But look closely:
Same drama.
Same results.
Same blame.

Different man. Same mess.

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4. She Doesn’t Take Responsibility—She Rewrites the Script

You bring up her disrespect?

She flips it on you: – “You made me act that way.” – “I only did that because of what you said.” – “You weren’t emotionally safe.”

Now you’re confused.
You’re apologizing.
And she’s back in control.

She’s not taking accountability.

She’s taking advantage.

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5. She Weaponizes Her Emotions to Avoid Growth

Every time she’s caught?

Tears.

Every time you try to talk?

Tantrums.

Every time the truth shows up?

She plays dead.

Because growth requires honesty.

But she’s allergic to shame—and addicted to sympathy.

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6. She Thinks Correction Is Abuse—but Manipulation Is Love

She posts about “healing” and “holding space.”

But can’t hold herself accountable.

She talks about “safe leadership”...

But emasculates any man who dares lead her.

She wants freedom with no structure. Power with no responsibility. Loyalty with no submission.

She doesn’t want marriage.

She wants immunity.

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Final Word: A Woman Who Never Thinks She’s Wrong Will Make You Regret Being Right

Marriage is not for the defensive, denying, or blame-shifting woman.

Not for the one who:

– Cries when cornered
– Gaslights when guilty
– And leaves you bleeding while calling herself the victim

Because if you marry her?

You won’t just lose arguments.

You’ll lose clarity.

You’ll lose your voice.

You’ll lose yourself.

So be wise:

If she’s never at fault?

She’ll never be fit to follow.

And if she can’t say “I was wrong”?

She’s not ready to be a wife.

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A Mexico City police officer, Arizbeth Ambrosio, was promoted for breastfeeding a hungry baby during relief efforts in A...
17/07/2025

A Mexico City police officer, Arizbeth Ambrosio, was promoted for breastfeeding a hungry baby during relief efforts in Acapulco following Hurricane Otis.

The baby, separated from his mother, hadn't eaten in 48 hours. Ambrosio, a mother of two, was deployed to Acapulco with other officers and upon hearing the baby's cries, responded with immediate care.

Her act of kindness, captured in a photo, went viral, leading to her promotion for exemplifying humanity and service

17/07/2025
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MY FATHER IN-LAW SENDS ME MONEY NOT TO TOUCH HIS DAUGHTER AT NIGHT EPILOGUE They said the story ended in Chapter 8.They ...
16/07/2025

MY FATHER IN-LAW SENDS ME MONEY NOT TO TOUCH HIS DAUGHTER AT NIGHT

EPILOGUE

They said the story ended in Chapter 8.

They were wrong.

Because real life doesn’t end just because love starts. It keeps moving. It keeps testing. It keeps asking: Will you still choose this person tomorrow?

And we did. Every day after that.

Ada and I didn’t become perfect overnight. But we started becoming real. For the first time, she slept without checking if the door was locked ten times. For the first time, I stopped wondering if her love was trapped behind her trauma.

We grew. slowly, but surely.

As for Chief Cletus, he recovered.

He didn’t return to his old self. The sickness humbled him. That stroke cleaned him like fire burns bush for fresh grass to grow. He didn’t fight for power again. Instead, he called for peace — with us, with God, and even with himself.

One day, he called Ada and said, “I can’t undo the past. But I can stop it from ruining your future.”

That man that once ruled his house with control and silence… now spent his days watching cartoons with his grandchildren and giving Bible study to old men at the club.

Uncle T?

Let’s just say evil walks tall until somebody shouts.

Ada reported him.

It wasn’t easy. She cried. She doubted herself. She wanted to hide. But she didn’t.

The Women’s Rights Council got involved. So did a journalist. So did the police — real police this time. His name entered papers. And while rich men always try to find back doors, this time the gate was locked.

He was arrested, charged, and exposed. His face went viral. His family denied him. His friends vanished. His career crashed.

Some say it wasn’t enough.

But for Ada, it was everything.

The message stopped coming. No more threats. No more photos. Peace returned like NEPA light after weeks of darkness. Slowly. Unbelievably. But it came.

As for Mrs. Rose, she finally smiled again.

She said, “At least now, Oluchi can rest.”

And Ada’s mother?

She came back too.

Not to defend the past — but to admit it. She said she looked away too long. She said sorry. Not in the loud, dramatic way — but in the way that counts.

Sometimes, healing isn’t shouting. It’s showing up. It's sitting down. It’s staying.

And that’s what we all did.

Akponwei John Michael’s story kept trending. It moved from Facebook to radio. From radio to newspapers. From people’s phones to their hearts.

Men started talking. Women too.

And even though it was fiction for some… for people like us, it was reality with a title.

We still have bad days. We still argue. We still forget things. But we never go back to pretending. We never go back to silence.

Because now, we know better.

This wasn’t just the story of a marriage.

It was the story of what love can survive……and what happens when we finally stop covering wounds with silence.

THE END.

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