22/06/2023
Ang toxic ng parenting culture sa Pinas. Kapag anak ka bawal mo idefend yung sarili mo kahit below the belt na sinasabi sayo, pero pag sumagot ka defensive ka kapag hindi ka sumagot guilty ka. Uso pa murahin yung mga anak, tapos magagalit kapag yung anak nila may sama ng loob. Isn't ironic that some of toxic parents are blaming their kids because of they ‘existence’ pero hindi naman ginusto ng anak nila mabuhay, kasalanan ba ng anak nyo na ipinanganak sila sa mundo na 'to? So that's your kid(s) fault too?. Ang immature pa lalo na pinamumukha sa anak na 'anak ka lang', anak ka lang pero kung pagsalitaan nyo parang hindi tao? If you can't respect your child, respect him/her as a person. Don't put your guts and burnouts to your son's/daughters. Don't blame their existence kung in the first place hindi naman nila ginusto mabuhay. Don't blame if your kids are depressed and mentally ill.
