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It's Simply about Growing Me...❤️

05/03/2026

Don’t expect life to be calm — just make sure you can handle whatever comes, smoothly or a little dramatically. Who cares.

23/01/2026

For me, this is a journey of healing. We are all carrying wounds, but um not gonna talk about all of us. Because I don’t know about all of us, the only person I know very well is myself. So, I’m going to talk about myself.
Yes, I am carrying so many wounds as I have identified. What if there are wounds that are still invisible to my eye or beyond my vision? So, I must take care of all of them. For me, I am responsible for all of them. Even though there are other people involved in the same scenario, I am the one who allows them to hurt me, maybe knowingly, maybe unknowingly, still me. So, its easy math, if I am responsible for my own wounds, I am the one who is responsible for my own healing also. It’s that simple. So, every small step I take is to heal myself. Also, as aware of this situation now, um, not to allow anyone else to burn me, hurt me, wound me easily. Because if it happens so, I must deal with those in the future. I don’t want more. I have enough wounds & scars still to deal with. That’s enough for this life…

-Chamani Jayakodi-

06/01/2026

ඔයා දැන් මොනවද බලාපොරොත්තු වෙන්නෙ ඔහොම හැමෝ එක්කම මාව දන්නවා කිය කියා ගිහින්??

Validation එකක්ද? කාගෙන්ද? කොහොම එකක්ද? එහෙම නැත්තම් "අනේ ඔව්, මං එයාව දන්නවා, ලස්සන මතකයක්" වගේ එකක් මගෙ කටින් එළියට ගන්නද? නෑ, එහෙම වෙන්නෙ නෑ, මං කවදාවත් එහෙම කියන්නෙ නෑ. මං ඔයාව දන්නව කියල කාටවත් කිව්වෙ නෑ. මං හැංගුවා. ඇයි කියල දන්නෙ නෑ. ඒත් මට හිතුනෙ ඒ අතීතය, ඒකෙන් කාගෙවත් වරතමානයට හානි වෙන්න ඕනෙ නෑ කියල. එතනදි කාගෙවත් කියල වැඩිපුරම අදහස් කලේ මං හිතන්නෙ ඔයා ගැන. දවසක් හරි ජීවිතේ හිටපු කෙනෙක්ගෙ, මං ආදරේ කරපු මනුස්සයෙක්ගෙ ජීවිතේට මං හින්ද ප්‍රශ්නයක් වෙනවට මං කැමති වුනේ නෑ. ඒ උනාට ඔයා එහෙම නෑ වගේ. නැත්තම් ඉතින් අන්තිමට කතාවෙ Victim වුන මගෙ ජීවිතේට මෙහෙම සැරින් සැරේ එබිකම් කරල මොනවද මගෙන් හොයන්නේ? ආයෙ දවසක හමුවෙලා ලස්සනට හිනාවෙලා කතා කරල යන්න පුළුවන් විදිහට අපි වෙන්වුනා කියල අඟවන්නද? නෑ එහෙම නෑ. මං ඒ කතාවෙ Victim වුනා, ඔයා ඔයාගෙ ජීවිතේ තෝර ගත්තා. ඉතිං දැන්වත් මට ඉන්න දෙන්න. මං ඔයාව නෙමේ, ඔයා මාවයි අත ඇරියෙ. ඒක පිළි ගන්න. ඔයා කියන විදිහට නොදන්න, නොතේරුම් කාලේ ඇති වුන සුන්දර ආදර කතාවක් නෙමේ මට ඒක. මගෙ ජීවිතේට ආයෙ මනුස්සයෙක් විශ්වාස කරන්නෙ කොහොමද කියල මං මාවම ප්‍රශ්න කර ගන්න අඳුරු මතකයක් මට ඒක. ඔව්, ඔයා හැමෝම ඉස්සරහ පෙන්නන්න හදන්නෙ, දිග අරින්න හදන්නෙ මං තාමත් බය අඳුරු අතීතයක්. මට ඒක ඇතුළෙ හිනා වෙලා මතක් කරන්න දේවල් නෑ.

04/01/2026

& Thank me later 🙂

02/01/2026

This is from an oversensitive idiot you can ever meet. Who...? Me.

What? Sensitivity with Chamani, this tough girl we meet daily…? What a joke, right? But yes, that’s the truth. I am that idiot. Doesn’t make any sense…? Let me break it down for you.
I was getting hurt easily, even by the surrounding wind. I cried a lot in my early years because I couldn’t tolerate those. How could someone cry every 30 minutes…? That was draining me down. So, I started to draw lines around me, and the things that hurt me are out of that line.
Initially, it was hard because I didn’t know how to be in my own inner space. Also, people around me were criticizing that a lot and began to label me as a tough character. Having an oversensitive inner world & labeling as a zero sensitive person by the outer world… Believe me, I cried more. More and more.
But how little did I know… life was teaching me a beautiful lesson, and I was a terrible student. Yet neither life nor I was ready to give up. Finally, life wins… I surrendered myself after realizing that having a calm inner space is better than being a people pleaser.
Also, with maturity, I wanted more space for my inner space. And now, that stubborn, terrible student is expanding her limits. Yes, I heard life laugh at me. Yet, I expanded my limits, giving space to grow myself. So, here today you meet a girl who wears “Not Easy” outfit and is dealing with the winds that once hurt her like “blow harder, you can’t hurt me” with a charming smile on her face.
Believe me, she is completely comfy in that outfit, and that smile is not even fake.

31/12/2025

Rooted in gratitude.
Walking forward with trust.
Hello, 2026.

#2026 #2026수능

19/12/2025

Fear | බය | Listen 👂

16/12/2025

😉😌

14/12/2025

I work 💪👊👊

12/12/2025

The truth you need to hear

01/12/2025

කවදාවත් අසාර්ථක වෙන්න බය වෙන්න එපා. එක පාරක් කරලා තියෙන දෙයක් ආයෙ කරන එක මහ ලොකු දෙයක් නෙමේ.

Never be afraid of failure.
If you've done it once, you can do it again.

Trust me, it's easier than the first time.

25/11/2025

I didn’t know what I was doing. Yet, somehow, I have done it. I was drained, both physically and mentally. Yet, I felt like someone was calling me. So, I went. That’s all. Now I can feel the hidden sacredness of that journey. Not only me, but I think everyone can feel it. Yes, it’s a sacred journey where I finished a lesson that life was giving me.

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