16/03/2025
Have you ever noticed that when someone can't face their own faults, they make you the problem instead? It's easier for them to paint you as the villain than to confront their mistakes or take responsibility for their actions. By shifting the blame onto you, they create a convenient distraction from the truth they've been avoiding.
But no matter how much they deflect or twist the narrative, it doesn't change the reality of their behavior. Their actions are a reflection of their own inner struggles and insecurities—not a measure of your worth or who you are.
You don't have to carry the weight of their unresolved issues. Those burdens belong to them, not you.
Always remember that when someone struggles to acknowledge their own faults, they often resort to shifting blame onto others, making them the scapegoat instead of facing their shortcomings.
By casting you as the antagonist, they avoid the discomfort of confronting their mistakes or taking accountability for their actions. This tactic serves as a convenient escape from the truths they refuse to face.
Yet, despite their attempts to deflect or distort reality, the truth of their behavior remains unchanged. Their actions stem from their internal battles and insecurities, reflecting their struggles—not defining your worth or identity.
You are not responsible for carrying their unresolved issues; those burdens belong solely to them, not to you.
- Gil Vivante
