15/04/2024
Over the last few years the words "WHEN" and "trust the process" have been recurring themes in my life. "WHEN" used to paralyze me with excuses, but I've realized it's time to take action. Over the past year, I've confronted my unhappiness and burnout, starting with a journey of self-improvement. From weight loss to finding my purpose, I've leaned on prayer and support, asking for guidance and opportunities to help others. And the blessings flowed in. As I've held space for those in need, I've learned the profound impact of human connection and vulnerability. Loneliness is pervasive in our hyper-connected world, and I'm determined to make a difference. My goal is simple: to leave the world a little brighter than I found it. After months of deep research and introspection, I've come to realize something profound: in a world seemingly more connected than ever, there's a prevailing sense of loneliness that affects countless individuals. We're bombarded with notifications and interactions on social media, yet genuine human connection often feels elusive. The statistics are telling: a mere like on a post or a brief interaction can trigger a fleeting rush of dopamine, but it's no substitute for the deep, meaningful conversations that so many of us crave. Many people simply need a safe space to vent, to share their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or exposure. Recognizing the critical importance of human connection for our well-being, I've embarked on a journey of vulnerability and self-discovery. If I aspire to be a business owner who truly makes a difference, I understand the need to lead by example, to show up authentically and wholeheartedly. My mission is clear: to be the change I wish to see in the world, to leave a positive impact, no matter how small, on the lives of those around me. And with potentially two deals on the horizon, I'm filled with excitement and anticipation for the journey ahead. Yet, I'll admit, stepping into the realm of networking brings a mix of emotions—excitement tempered with a hint of anxiety. But I welcome it all, knowing that every interaction is an opportunity for growth and connection. I invite you to join me on this journey of authenticity and empowerment. If you have a moment, I'd be immensely grateful if you could take a look at my website, www.thelisteninghive.com. It's a space where vulnerability is embraced, where individuals are heard and supported without judgment. And speaking of embracing vulnerability, upon the suggestion of a dear friend, I wasted no time in becoming HIPAA certified. It's a testament to my commitment to professionalism and privacy in creating a safe environment for all who seek solace and support in a non-clinical fashion. In my journey of inspiring, motivating, and speaking up for others, I realize it's time to turn that same compassion and advocacy inward. I've been the silent listener, the pillar of strength for others, but now it's my turn to lean into my own voice, my own needs. I've experienced the challenges of being the default parent, of battling burnout, of suppressing my own need to vent for fear of judgment. But I've also been fortunate enough to have a tribe—a support system that I'm endlessly grateful for. Yet, I'm acutely aware that many aren't as fortunate. The ramifications of loneliness and isolation are not to be underestimated—they can take a toll on both our physical and mental health. Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope to connect with you soon. If nothing else, if you could leave a comment that would be great. Being vulnerable is hard. But I refuse to be in the same space in 3 months.