29/11/2025
Respect is a virtue that thrives best when it is demonstrated rather than demanded. Many individuals grow up in environments where older generations assert that respect must be granted automatically. However, age alone does not confer dignity, and true honor cannot be imposed. It is earned through humility, steadiness, and a life that embodies wisdom. Young people need to understand this clearly: you are not required to honor arrogance simply because it comes from someone older.
Also, keep this in mind 👉 growing older does not give anyone the right to disrespect younger individuals. Age brings experience, certainly, but it does not grant permission to belittle, insult, or look down on those who are still developing. Respect must be reciprocal. The older generation is called to exemplify patience, gentleness, and guidance. Meanwhile, the younger generation should look for lives worth emulating. When elders wield age as a weapon, they undermine the very respect they seek.
As a young man myself, I don't concern myself with whether those younger than me choose to respect me. Respect holds value only when it is given freely. I do not demand it nor gauge my worth by it. Instead, I encourage you, young men and women, to live in an honorable manner before God, regardless of how others respond. Your identity should rest not on the approval of others but on the Lord who knows your heart.
Aim to be an example. Let your words be thoughtful, your actions consistent, and your commitments genuine. If others, whether younger or older, see your character and choose to show you respect, then be grateful. If they do not, remain steadfast and continue on your faithful path. You gain nothing by pursuing human praise.
Young people, you are in a pivotal stage of life where humility, discipline, and integrity will lay the groundwork for years ahead. Respect emerges from these qualities. When you express respect freely, without fear or pride, you reflect the gentle strength of Christ. And when you receive respect without demanding it, you exhibit the quiet confidence of someone who knows their worth in Him.
Remember that you young people will soon become the older generation yourselves. Let us break the cycle of enforced respect and demonstrate what genuine respect truly means.