01/09/2025
Be selfish to be selfless! 🦥
You can’t really take care of others or fully give without expectations if you aren’t in a good place.
Someone has to take care of you, and if you don’t you subconsciously start to have the expectation on others to do it for you.
This will often show up in feeling disappointed by others. Or being upset that they acted in a way you didn’t expect them to aka how you would have.
Being selfish to be selfless means putting your life vest on first! Make sure you are in a good place so you are ready to give to others without expectations, because all you needed you already have given yourself, anything’s else coming your way from others is now just the cherry on top!
You are your number 1 priority! ALWAYS! 💜
