The Pedestal Wife Society

11/20/2025

Being lazy saved my life

Being lazy is one of my secret frequency boosters.

Not the “lay around and give up on life” kind of lazy.
I’m talking about the pause… the stillness… the surrender…
the “I’m done forcing” kind of lazy.

Every time I allowed myself to stop performing, stop proving, stop overworking…
I got downloads that 10X’d my life, redirections I didn’t see coming, and intuitive nudges that positioned me for my next level.

When it was time for me to move, I got the nudge during a “lazy” day.
And this home?
It became the best place for my creativity, my peace, and my money flow.

But let me tell you something honest—

People hated it.
I was called lazy, useless, good for nothing, “never going to be anything.”
All because I listened to my inner voice instead of their expectations.

And I’m thankful that even back then… I didn’t care.

Here’s what they’ll never understand:

Lazy women receive clarity.
Lazy women hear God.
Lazy women get intuition that can’t come through noise.
Lazy women rest their nervous system into a higher frequency.

Being lazy changed my life.

So yes—be lazy.
Be soft.
Be still.
Let the downloads come.
Let the alignment rearrange itself for you.

But when the inspired action arrives?
Get up and move.
Follow it.
Trust it.
Honor it.

That’s the real magic.

Your life will shift in ways you will NOT regret.
I promise you that.

11/19/2025

If you feel broke, stop overthinking — get cash in your hand.
No affirmations.
No journaling.
Just cash.

Your frequency changes the moment your body feels supported.
Cash puts you back in your feminine receiving energy.
Cash opens the channel for MORE.

People who hate this message usually don’t have money flow.

11/10/2025

I kind of don’t disagree — not because I agree with everything Coco said, but because I believe the people in the relationship get to decide what works for them.

Every relationship has its own language, rhythm, and agreements. What looks “wrong” from the outside might be perfectly aligned for the two people living it.

The truth is — love isn’t one-size-fits-all.
It’s not about following rules or public opinion.
It’s about mutual understanding, peace, and growth between you two.

What works for one couple may never work for another, and that’s okay.

Do you think every couple should define their own rules — or are there some non-negotiables that should always stand?

Video: Dumb Blonde Podcast

11/09/2025

The economy isn’t struggling because of inflation —
it’s struggling because there’s too much money in men’s hands.

And no, this isn’t about hating men.
It’s about energetics.

When men hold the money, it moves in a straight line —
toward protection, provision, and stability.
So the moment those feel threatened… money gets hoarded.

But when women hold the money, it circulates.
Through beauty. Through community. Through art.
She doesn’t just spend — she blesses.

✨ That’s why when women thrive, the world expands.
Bless women with money… and the economy booms.

11/07/2025

The Feminine Way We Reached $1M: Energetic Budgeting, Not Burnout.

11/06/2025

I gave my daughters a soft life because I had a hard beginning.

I learned womanhood through survival, not safety.
Love through pain, not peace.
And success through exhaustion, not ease.

But I made a decision — it ends with me.
The trauma, the chaos, the constant “make it work” energy… it doesn’t pass down.
It gets transmuted.

Ladies, use it.
Use every ounce of that pain and pressure as proof that you were meant for softness.
You don’t have to glorify the struggle to honor the story.
You can reset your nervous system so your body finally believes — “I am safe now.”

Because the most powerful legacy isn’t survival.
It’s serenity.

What’s one thing your hard beginning taught you about the kind of woman you’re becoming?

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Your softness isn’t weakness — it’s nervous system mastery.

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11/06/2025

“It’s not about the Walmart ring — it’s about the disregard.”

If she told him exactly what she wanted and he still chose something else, that’s not a budget issue, that’s a listening issue.

When a man values you, he listens. He may not buy the most expensive ring, but he’ll make sure what he gives aligns with your heart — not just his convenience.

Declining isn’t about the ring, it’s about the reflection: he doesn’t see her, he sees what’s easiest for him.

🖤 Lesson: When you express your desires clearly and someone still ignores them, they’re showing you how they’ll handle your needs in marriage. Believe them early.

Would you accept a ring that didn’t reflect you, even if it was meant well?

11/04/2025

The middle-class trap isn’t financial — it’s energetic.
You’ve worked hard, but wealth doesn’t respond to hustle; it responds to frequency.
Learn how to multiply resources through Feminine Codes and Spiritual Technology.
💎 The ritual is the strategy.
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11/02/2025

We need to stop pretending you’re “marrying him, not his family.”

I think there’s a way to not accept disrespect from his mother, but let’s be clear — it’s his job to set the tone and check his mother early.
If you’re constantly being disrespected and he just watches… that’s not love, that’s avoidance.

This conversation needs to happen before you say “I do.”
Because if he allows it while you’re dating, he’ll excuse it while you’re married.

You’re not just marrying him — you’re marrying how he manages his family.
He is the sum of his upbringing, his mother, his environment.

And every argument you have, if his family doesn’t like you, they’ll be right there watering the seeds of distrust in your marriage.

Protect your peace before you protect a title. Boundaries first. Wedding later.

Video: Tonight's Conversation

11/01/2025

Do It Anyway

I grew up being told I wouldn’t be anything—
That being the oldest of five meant I’d fail before I even started.
I was called names no child should ever hear.
Told I was ugly. Unworthy. Unwanted.

Adults can be cruel.
And sometimes, you get judged for circumstances you never asked for.

So of course I didn’t know my worth.
Of course I didn’t have self-esteem.

But I remember signing up for my first pageant—
and being laughed at for even trying.
I remember stepping on that stage with God in my heart
and a prayer on my lips:
“Please don’t let me make a fool of myself.”

That night, my first ritual was born.
Faith. Courage. Presence.
And when I walked off that stage to a standing ovation—
and my very first crown—
something inside me shifted.

Pageants weren’t about perfection for me.
They were about facing fear, and winning against every voice that said I couldn’t.

So when they tell you you can’t—
Do it anyway.
Because every time you choose courage,
You build a woman no one can tear down.

10/30/2025

I’m not even going to address the 50/50 part… but financial literacy needs to be taught.

Because moving in with a man to split bills when you already own a paid-off home (that’s bringing in rental income)? That’s not strategy — that’s self-sabotage disguised as “partnership.”

You’re giving up your leverage, your asset, your autonomy… for what?
A shared Netflix account and a man who’s not even being transparent about his finances?

All the risk. So little reward.

Ladies, this isn’t about being “independent.”
It’s about being financially literate.
If you don’t understand money, you’ll keep confusing love with liability.

Video: itsmeniae

10/30/2025

If we just met, a man doesn’t have to call me every day — it would be nice, but not expected. I expect that consistency when we are committed.
There’s a difference between access and investment.
Early on, I value pacing — getting to know him while observing his effort.
Once we’re exclusive, I value presence — consistency, calls, and communication that match the commitment.

What do you think? Should a man call you every day, or does it depend on the stage you’re in?

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