The Pedestal Wife Society

01/03/2026

You’re Not Different. You Just Fit In Better Than You Think.
Most women aren’t different.
They just say they are.
Claiming you’re “from a different time” isn’t differentiation.
Wearing a tradwife aesthetic isn’t originality.
Repeating the same talking points with a softer voice doesn’t make you rare.
I recently came across a creator who kept insisting she was different.
So I looked for the difference.
There was none.
She fit neatly into the majority—same values, same language, same performance.
That doesn’t make her wrong.
But it does make her ordinary.
And there is nothing wrong with fitting in.
What’s dangerous is thinking you don’t.
Real difference is rare because it requires self-mastery.
It requires deconstructing the beliefs you inherited instead of polishing them.
It requires standing outside approval long enough to form your own authority.
Most women don’t want to be different.
They want to be admired while staying safe.
A woman who is actually different doesn’t announce it.
You can feel it in how she moves, decides, and governs her life.
Different isn’t aesthetic.
It’s structural.
If this stings, sit with it.

01/02/2026

You’ve Been Circling the Lesson for Years
A lot of women don’t actually want power.
They want proximity to it.
They gather information.
Sit near authority.
Listen, watch, save, quote.
But they don’t do the work for themselves.
They circle insight for years and call it growth.
They stay close enough to feel important, informed, “aware”—
but never close enough to be changed.
My grandma used to say something that stopped me cold:
Either get on the pot or get off.
She didn’t say it as nicely as I just did.
Make a decision.
Commit.
Execute.
Or stop lingering around work you have no intention of embodying.
Proximity is not power.
Information is not transformation.
Watching is not becoming.
Either do the work
or move out of the way.
Transformation requires commitment.

01/01/2026

This got to be a skit because $50,000 to a boyfriend for Christmas.

What are your thoughts?

Video:bigbru79

12/29/2025

Manifestation Is the Lowest Level of Power.
In 2026, I will no longer use the word manifestation in my work.
Manifestation is asking.
Power is when asking is no longer required.
Most people don’t realize this, but manifestation is actually the lowest level of thought.
It’s the entry point — not the destination.
Here’s what comes after:
You don’t “manifest” money — you manage it.
You don’t “manifest” love — you expect it.
You don’t “manifest” safety — you operate from it.
There are people who brag about thinking something and watching it become reality —
yet they only teach manifestation.
They never take you beyond the ground floor.
I’m not here to brag.
I’m here to take you where few have gone and fewer have been.
Beyond asking.
Beyond hoping.
Beyond chasing signs.
Into command.
Into internal authority.
Into a life that responds without persuasion.
If this resonates, you already know what to do.
Transformation requires commitment.

12/25/2025

Merry Christmas 🤍
Wishing you rest, love, and moments that feel like home.

12/21/2025

Some women stay close to the work
so they don’t have to step into it.
Proximity can still be avoidance.

12/20/2025

I’ve been thinking about why women move in with men.
I always thought 50/50 referred mostly to finances, but cohabitation also includes space, routines, emotional energy, and responsibility — not just money.
When a woman moves in, her life changes in certain ways.
When a man shares his space, his life changes in different ways.
What does 50/50 really mean to you in that situation?

Video: ms.goodie1010

12/20/2025

Who in my Skool community…
Y’all already know — the posts in there are nothing like what I share publicly.
The public gets insight.
The community gets interrupted.
I don’t post to be agreeable in that space. I post to change behavior.
No motivation. No hand-holding. No performing self-awareness.
If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I understand so much but nothing is actually changing?”
That’s exactly what we work on inside.
This isn’t a space for spectators.
It’s for women who are done repeating the same year with better captions.
Most people wouldn’t last in there.
And that’s the point. If this made you curious… you’re probably already feeling the pull.

12/18/2025

NEW YEAR RESOLUTION SEASON IS MY FAVORITE COMEDY 🍿

Dec 31:
“This year I’m LOCKED IN.”

Jan 1:
New gym membership. New diet. New personality.

Jan 4:
“I’m listening to my body.”

Jan 7:
“I don’t believe in restriction.”

Jan 14:
“Next month I’m really starting.”

Every year people swear they’re becoming a new person…
but they keep the same habits, the same coping patterns, the same money issues, the same emotional triggers.

You can’t lose 20 lbs with the same behaviors that helped you gain it.
You can’t create wealth with the same money patterns your broke lineage taught you.
You can’t have a new year while dragging the old identity behind you like carry-on luggage.

That’s not transformation.
That’s wishful thinking with a calendar.

Resolutions fail because identity never changed.
See you in February. 😌

12/15/2025

Which would you choose 🤔

Video: whateversydwants

12/10/2025

If you can’t handle my posts, stay out of my group.

I’m not here to babysit emotions.
I’m not here to water down the truth so you can stay comfortable.
I am on a soulwork mission of 25,000 transformations in 2026 — and if a post triggers you, that tells me one thing:

You’re not ready for transformation.

I don’t guide women by coddling their wounds.
I lead by exposing the patterns you cling to and calling you into the identity you keep running from.

If you join my space and get your feelings hurt, that’s not a sign for me to tone it down —
it’s a sign for you to level up.

I am not here to help you maintain the version of you that keeps you stuck.
I’m here to lead you into the woman your future requires.

So don’t get blocked and kicked because you entered a transformative space expecting comfort.
Comfort is what kept you stagnant.
Growth requires pressure.
Elevation requires accountability.
Becoming HER requires audacity.

But for the woman who is DONE playing small…
DONE choosing excuses…
DONE repeating the same year on loop…

I invite you into my Skool community.
Only join if you are genuinely ready to evolve — not be validated.

👉 Join the Skool Community:
https://bit.ly/4i4K7VM

If you’re ready, step in.
If not… stay where it’s safe.

12/02/2025

We are NOT waiting for January to become the woman we were designed to be.
2026 starts NOW for Pedestal Wives.

Because the life you want won’t show up on a calendar—
it shows up the moment you stop living on default and start living on identity.

This next era is about love on OUR terms, not survival love.
It’s about money that responds to your standards, not money you hustle for.
It’s about success rooted in feminine power, not burnout.
It’s about influence, not begging.
It’s about becoming the woman whose life finally reflects the truth she carries inside.

So buckle up, Pedestal Wives…
We are entering a year of:

✨ WEALTH — aligned money, high standards, and overflow
✨ SUCCESS — achieved through softness, strategy, and identity
✨ LOVE — sacred partnership, truth, devotion, and no more performing
✨ INFLUENCE — commanding environments without force
✨ IDENTITY EVOLUTION — becoming the woman you dream of, not the woman you settle for

2026 is the year of no more shrinking, no more waiting, no more hoping things change.
We’re building a new internal world that demands a new external lifestyle.

If you're ready to walk into this year with power, clarity, and community…

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This next chapter isn’t happening to you…
It’s happening because of who you’re becoming.

Drop a 🔥 if you’re stepping into your 2026 identity NOW—not January.

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