The Bad Influence Podcast with Bjordan Banderas

03/10/2025

🎬Clip from episode 294🎬 Fear is a sneaky bastard. It whispers, “Be reasonable. Play it safe.” But that voice isn’t wisdom, it’s woundedness. Safe isn’t protection, it’s a padded cage. And inside that cage is the version of you that’s sharper, braver, louder, freer, suffocating under polite excuses. Stop mistaking comfort for wisdom. Unlock the door. Risk the storm. Let that version out before fear buries it alive.

Comment BREAK if you’re done letting fear chain you to “safe.”

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03/10/2025

Critics don’t chain you, they hand you the key and bet you’ll never use it. Their poison only works if you swallow it. Every replay of their words? That’s you building their cage.

Rip the pen from their hands. Write your own story. Don’t argue. Don’t beg. Let your results be the silence that chokes them.

👉 Comment “UNCHAINED” if you’re done living in their cage.

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03/10/2025

🎬Clip from episode 294🎬 When you picture the edge, are you terrified of the fall or the flight? Fear screams the loudest right before an identity dies. That’s your old self begging, “Don’t jump. Stay small.” But fear lies. It only shows you the fall, never the flight. The edge isn’t here to break you, it’s here to reveal two futures: one where you fall and learn, and one where you fly and never look back. The leap isn’t the risk, staying the same is.

Comment FLY if you’re done letting fear keep you grounded.

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03/10/2025

Fear isn't your stop sign, it's your spotlight. In this no-fluff episode of The Bad Influence Podcast, I torch the lies fear's been feeding you and dares you to crack the window you've spent your whole life avoiding. You're not scared of failing. You're scared of finally giving it everything. Because once you leap, there's no going back to small.
This isn't about motivation. It's about ex*****on. Burn the comfort zone. Kill the excuses. Build the wings mid-flight.
If you're done letting fear be your prison guard, this is your jailbreak.

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Fear isn't your stop sign, it's your spotlight. In this no-fluff episode of The Bad Influence Podcast, I torch the lies fear's been feeding you and dares you...

03/10/2025

03/10/2025

🎬Clip from episode 293🎬 If your inner dialogue is trash, your connections will be too. I knew a guy who treated pickup lines like scripture, memorized every one, thought words alone could unlock women. He got numbers but never respect, never trust, never something real. Because when the lines ran out, so did the connection. People can smell when you’re a script instead of a soul. Authenticity always outlasts performance. Audit your self-talk, because the real flex isn’t lines, it’s presence.

Comment REAL if you’re done being a script and ready to show up authentic.

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02/10/2025

🎬Clip from episode 293🎬 The alpha obsession is killing real confidence. Posturing isn’t power, it’s cosplay. Real confidence doesn’t need to scream, flex, or announce itself. It just is. A man who’s done the work doesn’t have to prove a damn thing, because his biggest fight wasn’t against the world, it was against himself. Presence isn’t loud, it’s calm. It’s the quiet authority that comes from conquering your own chaos. That’s the kind of strength nobody can fake.

Comment CALM if you’re done with cosplay confidence and ready to build the real thing.

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02/10/2025

🎬Clip from episode 293🎬 Stop trying to impress her, start letting her feel you. Most women don’t want your volume, they want your presence. Somewhere along the way, men traded vulnerability for noise, domination for connection, and that’s why so many relationships feel empty. Domination creates distance, but presence creates intimacy. Drop the performance. Drop the script. Show up raw, real, and unarmored. That’s where true connection lives.

Comment PRESENCE if you’re done with noise and ready to show up real.

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02/10/2025

🎬Clip from episode 293🎬 Love doesn’t start when she says yes, it starts when you do. If your self-talk is weak, your presence collapses. Belief leaks through the cracks, and no amount of bars, DMs, or pickup lines can hide it. Your self-talk is the pillar holding up your presence, your confidence, your energy. Tear yourself down, and you’ll show up broken. Build yourself up, and you’ll radiate power. The real work isn’t out there, it’s in the mirror. Start there, or nothing else matters.

Comment BELIEF if you’re ready to rebuild the way you talk to yourself.

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