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Eve | Social Media VA

🌟 Advocating for neurodiversity
🏡 Nurturing gentle parenting spaces
🍃 Cultivating slow-living moments

👩‍💻 By day: SM VA & content strategist for personal brands
🌙 Always: mama & storyteller ♡

04/04/2026

Random thought on a because today feels like waiting, hoping and keeping the faith without knowing what happens next 💕

09/03/2026

They called me “Supermom.”

I was in disposable underwear, less than 48 hours after pushing out a human being.

There was tearing.
There was blood.
There were stitches.
There was a nurse asking if I’d peed yet.

And somehow the internet decided I was glowing.

I love being a woman.

But sometimes it feels like we’re celebrated for enduring systems that were never built to support us.

Strong is beautiful.

But it’s also expensive.

Maybe instead of praising women for carrying everything…

We start asking why they’re carrying it alone.

Support isn’t loud.

It’s quiet.

It’s someone saying, “Go shower. I’ve got this.”

And truth be told babe, that’s the real flex.

07/03/2026

The world celebrated me. Totally appreciated.

But it was all while I was still bleeding.

Less than 48 hours after giving birth, I was back on my feet because apparently that’s what “strong women” do.

But here’s the thing:

I don’t want to be applauded for surviving.

I needed backup. Still do.

Flowers are nice.
Graphics are cute.
Quotes are aesthetic.

But real love actually sounds like:

“I’ll handle dinner.”
“Sleep. I’ve got the baby.”
“You don’t have to do this alone.”

Strong is beautiful.

But supported is better.

If this hit you, share it with a woman who deserves more than applause.

05/03/2026

It's International Women's Month, which means my inbox is about to be flooded with "You're a queen 👑" messages from some brands that don't actually pay women equally. 🙄

Cool. Thanks. Super helpful.

Look, I love a good flower delivery as much as the next person.

But you know what I love more?

✨ Not having to choose between my career and being present for my kids.
✨ Childcare that doesn't cost more than our mortgage.
✨ A partner who doesn't get applauded for doing the exact same parenting tasks I do every day without the parade.

They'll post about us for 31 days. Call us strong, resilient, unstoppable.

Then April 1st rolls around and they’re back to "Can you just handle this? And that? And oh the other thing?".

At 5PM. On a Friday.

Here's the thing: we don't need another motivational quote in a fancy font.
We don't need to be told we're "doing amazing, sweetie" while we're actually drowning in the daily ‘usual’ stuff.

We need rest. Not recognition.
Support. Not poetic slogans.
Real help. Not hashtags.

So this Women's Month, maybe skip the generic appreciation post.
Ask the women in your life what they actually need.

Then — and here's the revolutionary part — help them get it.

And to every woman reading this: you don't have to be strong right now. You don't have to perform gratitude for scraps. You don't have to shrink to make anyone comfortable.

Just. Live. Your. Truth. 😎

(And that, babe — that's more than enough.)

17/02/2026

Something honest from me today:

I came back to writing in this space because I miss writing for me. 💕

The internet is already too loud…

but apparently there’s still room for one more tired mom oversharing on main. 😌

If you like slow stories, real moments, and soft honesty with a side of “I’m doing my best,” heya ~ you’re in the right place.

27/03/2025

A client decided to call me (completely unannounced) while I was in the middle of juggling the kids’ meals, a work deadline, and what felt like 47 other things.

Cue the anxiety spiral. 😵‍💫

And here's how I tried to stop going
into full-madness mode today:
5-4-3-2-1 technique

I'm about to teach you a 'band-aid' to awful, anxiety-inducing situations.

It’s simple:

5 things I could see:
✨ my bub’s high green high chair
✨ the mess of toys on the floor
✨ my laptop
✨ the sunlight through the window
✨ my toddler quietly side-eye-ing me

4 things I could touch:
✨ my desk
✨ my sweater
✨ my hair
✨ the floor under my feet

3 things I could hear
✨ my toddler babbling
✨ the hum of the fridge
✨ miss 9 months old giggling

2 things I could smell
✨ my diffused lavender essential oil
✨ the faint scent of baby wipes

1 thing I could taste
✨ the lingering sweetness of banana chips

By the time I got to “1,” I had finally caught my breath again.

Well, anxiety happens. It does for most of us (Hello, millenial friends!)

But there's something you can do not to let it win.

What’s your go-to trick for calming down when everything just feels too much?

Drop it in the comments!

05/03/2025

Last year was… well, let’s just say it wasn’t the year I had planned.

First, our car went up in flames. Literally. One minute it was parked in the garage, and the next — it was consumed by fire. P**f. Gone. In less than an hour.

By mid-2024, our second daughter decided to make her entrance a few weeks earlier than expected. Beautiful? Absolutely.

But my birth experience wasn’t.

And just when I thought I couldn’t handle more, we lost my dad in September. It was devastating to say the least.

Still stings so much.
SO MUCH.

By the time 2024 wrapped up,
we were dealing with family problems
that felt like the universe was saying,

“Oh, you thought we were done?”

“Nope, here’s more.”

2025 came in swinging too.

I’m honestly running thin on everything: mommy-ing, working, paying bills.

Exhausted doesn’t even begin to cover it. 💨

But here’s the thing: I’m rebuilding my service business!

I must be crazy. I know.

Who starts a business when life feels held together by only faith and prayers?

But ✨something✨
in me says now’s the time.

Maybe because I’ve already been through the worst.

✨ Life doesn’t come with a manual. ✨

I’ve learned to stop fighting the mess.

And trying to “fix” everything just made it heavier.

Letting myself feel it all — holding Ms. 8-month-old at 3 a.m. or watching my toddler snort-laugh at something ridiculous — that’s where I found little pockets of peace.

Joy doesn’t wait for perfection.

✨ Success looks different now ✨

It’s not Instagram-perfect lives or some big bank account (though this would help A LOT).

Some days, it’s just getting out of bed.

Other days, it’s landing a client or making my toddler laugh so hard she snorts.

Smaller wins? They count just as much.

✨ I’ve started carving out time for what matters. ✨

Every day, no matter what, I give myself and my business 90 minutes.

No excuses. No distractions.
Is it easy? Nope. But it’s worth it.

Those 90 minutes remind me
I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building something.

Rebuilding is scary.

Exciting. Messy. Perfect? Not even close.

But I’m doing it anyway. Because waiting for the “right” moment is just another way of staying stuck.

And honestly? I’m not great at ‘getting stuck’. 💥

This is my re-invention era.

And I’m *freaking* scared.
Still doing it — one messy step at a time.

Stick around, yeah? I’d love for you to be here while I figure this out.

Re-building something? Let me know!
I’d love to have an accountability buddy.

22/01/2025

We can do this. ♥️

07/12/2024

PUT THE STONES DOWN. 💛

I’ve been following the recent issue, and like many of you, I’ve felt the frustration and the disappointment.

What Anthony Jennings and Maris Racal did was wrong, no question about that. But as I watch the hate pour in, I can’t help but wonder…

when did we become so perfect that we feel justified in destroying lives?

Jesus Himself dined with sinners — prostitutes, tax collectors, the ones society called unworthy. He saw their brokenness, yes, but also their humanity. He didn’t condone their actions, but He showed grace.

So why are we, flawed as we are, so quick to pick up stones? Do we really believe that tearing someone down makes things right?

I’m not saying we excuse what they did. Accountability is important. But turning people into objects of hate isn’t justice; it’s cruelty. All three of them are hurting right now. Do we really want to add to that pain?

What if we used this moment to look inward instead? To ask ourselves:
✨ Have I ever hurt someone and been forgiven?
✨ Have I ever been shown grace I didn’t deserve?

And if the answer is yes… then maybe it’s time we do the same.

Because at the end of the day, we’re not here to decide who’s worthy of love or redemption.

THAT'S NOT OUR JOB.

Let’s leave the stones on the ground.
Let our response be grace. 💛

04/12/2024

Awit 🤭

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