29/12/2021
WHAT YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT CRITICISMS
Who is a critic?
A critic is someone who finds fault with something or someone and expresses an unfavourable opinion about that thing or someone.
Usually what sponsors critic is the fact that they have done what you did and succeeded and they couldn't.
Your success is saying that their excuses are meaningless
Critics are intimidated by your success and progress, so the way they make themself feel better is by criticizing you.
Critics wait secretly for the moment that you fail to prove that the system does not work
Anything in your life that is of usual value must attract criticism.
It is one of the side effects of success.
"Whatever you do, good or bad, people will always have something negative to say". know this and know peace
BENEFITS OF CRITICISM
1. They help you see the area you are not doing well, so you analyze what is been said and make the necessary adjustment
2. They help you stay disciplined, knowing that they are there and will criticise you for any small mistake.
HOW TO HANDLE CRITICS
1. To realize that at every point in time, there are always more people in your life that love and honour you more than your critics.
2. Ignore any part of the criticism that is not true and relevant to your growth.
3. Do not respond, defend or explain yourself to the critics because they already know the truth.
4. The greatest way to respond to criticism is to remain silent, remain focused and continue to produce more results.
Your consistency in producing more results will eventually shoot them up.
YOU must keep this at the back of your mind as we enter the new year and you are busy with your goal, know that critics will arise.
Don't be discouraged, just know is one of the prices you will pay for success.
Sometimes we became the ones criticising
Here is what to do
1. Train Yourself never to criticise success because what you criticize you repel.
2. Sincerely celebrate the object (person) of criticism
3. If you ever find fault find a good way to communicate it to the person without sentiment