02/01/2025
[Mamabari and the Lost Simplicity]
When I was just a little kid, one of my favorite moments was during holidays traveling to my mamabari [Grandma's house]. We Bengalis call it mamabari and for me, it wasn't just a house but a sanctuary.We would always travel from Kolkata to Soyla in the early morning. On those trips, I didn't need my mother to wake me up. Growing up in a chaotic town where the streets were noisy and life always felt rushed, visiting mamabari was like stepping into a peaceful dream.
My mamabari was in Soyla, a small village in Paschim Medinipur. Every time we visited..it felt like entering a different world..a world filled with love, simplicity and joy. Life at mamabari was slower yet so much more fulfilling.
But as time went on, things changed. Most people from the village moved away and some to other states,My mamabari grew quieter,and after my grandmother passed away..it felt as if the soul of the house was gone.
But this winter after many years..I visited Soyla again. Leaving behind the chaos of city life..Walking through the fields and lanes..I felt an overwhelming wave of nostalgia.
As I wandered through the familiar paths... I saw a little boy playing in the fields, carefree and full of life. He reminded me of my younger self free, unburdened, and living in the moment. For a fleeting second..
I wished I could go back to those days..living without the pressures and complexities of adulthood.
Life changes as we grow. As children we marvel at the simplicity of the world..finding joy in the smallest things,,a walk through the fields, the sound of rustling leaves, or a shared laugh with family. But adulthood brings responsibilities, jobs, and a constant race to achieve more..often pulling us away from the innocence of our early years.
As adults..we often lose ourselves in the chaos of work and obligations, forgetting the carefree moments that once defined us.
In the end, life isn't just about running after achievements. It's also about holding onto the little joys and revisiting the places and memories that made us who we are. My trip back to mamabari reminded me of this and for that...I'll always be grateful.
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