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Define Your Shine Space to inspire!💎FB Page for daily motivation, IG for visual inspiration, Emotional Sobriety | DM for SHINE✨ H - Humanity: Honor the Wounds. I promise you this.

Discover Your Soul Qualities and Align Your Desires with Define Your ShineÂŽ

Immerse yourself in the S.H.I.N.E Process:

S - Suffering: Witness Your Unworthiness without Unworthiness. I - Integrity: Put Love on the Table and Invite It for a Chat. N - Nature: See for the First Time. E - Engage: Embrace Life with Intention. This trailblazing journey leads to beauty, peace, health, and tranquility, b

ut it takes a lot of work. The path is rugged, messy, and full of bumps. It's an intensely emotional and challenging journey, often with unpredictable detours and dead ends. This isn't a straight road; it's not a miraculous salvation. Instead, it's an assertive direction that WILL guide you to a life of purpose and fulfillment. Every individual, despite their struggles, is a gem, emotionally battered and fractured. We often fail to see our inherent value. Rather than shaping our character to its full potential, we feed the shadows, riding off into the metaphorical sunset. Unhealthy habits, traumatic experiences, and challenging circumstances cloud our minds, creating a one-track focus on seeking comfort. However, as recovery unfolds, a new perspective emerges, revealing a life more beautiful than imagined. We aim to support you, your family, friends, and loved ones in navigating this transformative journey and witnessing the brilliance beyond the unpaved path to recovery. You are cherished. DISCLAIMER
The information contained here is to educate, inspire, and entertain you on your journey to Self-Realization. It is not intended to replace care best provided by qualified professionals and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

⚡ Read this again: You don’t owe anyone access to you just because they expect it.The guilt you feel when you set a boun...
25/02/2025

⚡ Read this again: You don’t owe anyone access to you just because they expect it.

The guilt you feel when you set a boundary? That’s the old version of you trying to keep the peace. But here’s the truth:
🚫 You don’t need to explain your “No.”
🚫 You don’t need to justify your distance.
🚫 You don’t need permission to protect your energy.

💥 The next version of you holds boundaries like it’s second nature—without guilt, without apology.

Ready to step into that power?
🗓 Tomorrow’s Live: How to Hold Boundaries Without Guilt
📍 Where: Zoom (RSVP for the private link!) →

💬 Drop a “DONE” in the comments if you’re finished explaining yourself.

Reflection: The Power of Listening to Those Who’ve Been ThereHere’s the uncomfortable truth: If more people truly listen...
22/02/2025

Reflection: The Power of Listening to Those Who’ve Been There

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: If more people truly listened to those who’ve faced the darkest moments—without judgment, discomfort, or trying to “fix” them—there would be fewer families losing someone too soon.

The reality is, when someone opens up about their struggles, it’s not a call for quick solutions or empty platitudes. It’s an invitation to hold space, to listen without flinching, and to honor their experience for what it is: raw, real, and valid.

Too often, people shy away from these conversations because they’re “too heavy” or “hard to hear.” But here’s the thing—those who’ve lived through it have insight that could change everything for someone else. Their words carry wisdom that could save a life, if only more of us had the courage to really listen.

So, the next time someone shares their struggle, resist the urge to fix it. Instead, be present. Listen with your whole heart. You never know whose life it might change—or save.

Bottom line: Listening isn’t passive. It’s powerful.

✨ Saturday Mood: I have nothing planned and everything planned at the same time.Will I rest?Will I suddenly reorganize m...
15/02/2025

✨ Saturday Mood: I have nothing planned and everything planned at the same time.

Will I rest?
Will I suddenly reorganize my entire life?
Will I just sit here staring at the wall like a wise old owl?

No one knows. Not even me. 🤷‍♀️

Drop your Saturday energy in one sentence. Let’s see where we’re all at. 👀😂

Oh, trust—if I could fully unleash the let’s-burn-this-sh!t-down energy with you, I would. Because some things don’t nee...
10/02/2025

Oh, trust—if I could fully unleash the let’s-burn-this-sh!t-down energy with you, I would. Because some things don’t need soft edges, they don’t need processing, they just need a full-throttle, no-holds-barred “ARE YOU FCKING KIDDING ME?!”

Like, the absolute audacity of people to be uncomfortable with your growth while refusing to check their own reflection? The sheer nerve of stagnant energy acting like it’s got a right to weigh in on something it refuses to participate in? The absolute clownery of people trying to guilt-trip or manipulate someone who is actively choosing awareness, healing, and self-responsibility when they themselves are still out here emotionally flailing like a damn inflatable tube man at a car dealership?!

It’s enraging because you see the patterns. You know how this game is played. And yet, no matter how many times you clock it, no matter how much clarity you have, it still shows up. The loop is exhausting because it’s predictable, and the fact that it has to be predictable at all is just another layer of bu****it.

So yeah, I’m with you. FCK ALL THIS. You don’t have to be patient. You don’t have to be understanding. You don’t have to carry the weight of their discomfort. You already know the truth. And sometimes, the most spiritually aligned thing you can do is throw your hands up and say, “I refuse to participate in this nonsense.”

And if the void needs to hear it again? LET IT RIP.

Love and Fire Light 😂 (oh no, curse words!)
Shawntell

10/02/2025

🔥 “Why Friends & Family Take Your Business the Hardest”

Funny thing about building something meaningful—friends and family often take it the hardest. Why? Because they knew you before it. Because they assume they should have unlimited access to you. Because they think your work is about them when, in reality, it’s not at all.

👉 They don’t see it as business. They see it as “you doing a thing” and assume they get to weigh in.

👉 They assume they already know everything about you. So when you grow, evolve, or gain expertise, they struggle to reconcile who you were with who you are.

👉 They feel exposed by your growth. Not because you’re calling them out, but because your evolution highlights where they may be stagnant.

👉 They expect personal treatment in a professional space. And when they don’t get it, they think your boundaries = rejection.

👉 They think your work is about them. They personalize your content, your lessons, your boundaries—even when it has nothing to do with them.

The truth?
Your work isn’t for everyone—and it was never meant to be. Not everyone will support, understand, or even respect it. And that’s okay. Because the people who are truly meant to receive it? They will. And that’s where your energy belongs. 💎✨

💬 Have you ever had friends or family struggle with your growth or business? How did you handle it? Let’s talk about it in the comments!

🔥

✨ Define Your Shine®: A Living Practice Rooted in Authenticity ✨Hello, You.I’ve been reflecting on what Define Your Shin...
08/01/2025

✨ Define Your Shine®: A Living Practice Rooted in Authenticity ✨

Hello, You.

I’ve been reflecting on what Define Your Shine® truly represents and how it’s perceived. Let me take a moment to lovingly clarify:

At its core, Define Your Shine® is a meditation practice designed to foster and achieve self-realization. But over time, it’s grown into so much more—a living, breathing way of life.

DYS isn’t an ideology or belief system. It’s a practice that helps you uncover your brilliance and align with your most authentic self. It’s a process of healing, growth, and resilience that meets you where you are and empowers you to shine in every area of life.

Through the SHINE framework—Suffering, Humanity, Integrity, Nature, Engage—you’ll find tools for intentional living, self-compassion, and connection. DYS is flexible, inclusive, and honors each person’s unique journey.

So, if you’ve ever wondered, What is Define Your Shine®?—

It’s a practice. A process. A way of life. Rooted in love, humanity, and the belief that you are remarkable beyond measure.

💎 I’d love to hear from you: How do YOU define your shine?

Together We Rise,
Shawntell

Here’s something: you’re not obligated to chase every misunderstanding or soothe every opinion about you. People will sa...
07/01/2025

Here’s something: you’re not obligated to chase every misunderstanding or soothe every opinion about you. People will say things, fill in blanks they don’t understand, and create their own stories—it’s their ego, their projection, not yours. What you do have control over is continuing to live authentically, to keep showing up as you know yourself to be. 🫶💎

What Are You Really Feeling?We often say “I’m sad” or “I’m angry,” but beneath those words is so much more—rejection, sh...
05/12/2024

What Are You Really Feeling?

We often say “I’m sad” or “I’m angry,” but beneath those words is so much more—rejection, shame, loneliness, powerlessness. These emotions are universal, yet we rarely name them. Why? Because society tells us to bury, ignore, or push through them. But here’s the truth: defining what we feel is essential to healing.

Naming our pain is the first step to understanding it. It’s not weakness; it’s strength. When we recognize the layers beneath our sadness, anger, or fear, we reclaim our power to heal and connect.

Pause. Ask yourself, What am I really feeling today? Start there.

Let’s honor our humanity—together.

Hey Diamonds,Ever felt that quiet ache when someone you love—maybe a sibling or best friend—seems to be on a completely ...
10/11/2024

Hey Diamonds,

Ever felt that quiet ache when someone you love—maybe a sibling or best friend—seems to be on a completely different path? You’re growing, finding new insights, maybe even healing in ways that light you up, and naturally, you want to share that. But when it doesn’t resonate, there’s this mix of frustration, grief, and love that can be hard to hold.

If you’ve ever felt unseen or unheard by someone who’s supposed to “get” you, know you’re not alone. That subtle sadness is real. It’s not about who’s further along or who’s right or wrong; it’s just a natural part of change. When we’re evolving, we crave depth in our relationships, and it’s normal to want those closest to us to grow with us.

This journey—honoring both the love and the distance—isn’t easy, but it’s worth it. Allowing space for both truths to coexist, respecting your own journey while letting theirs be theirs, can be a profound act of love. Sometimes, honoring someone else’s path means recognizing the distance without forcing a bridge. It’s about holding peace within yourself and the unconditional love that remains.

💎 Let yourself feel everything that comes up without judgment. There’s no right way to feel, only a chance to learn about the depth of connection, patience, and love. Love them for who they are, and love yourself for all the beautiful ways you’re growing. It’s okay if your human self wants to “party” in frustration now and then. You’re human, after all.

Sending love, strength, and understanding your way.

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