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Okeyiza I've lost a lot in my long life. Yes, I've seen pain and I've seen strife. But I'll never give up; I'll never let go. Because I'll always have my ray of Hope."

What you do now, you do it for the betterment of your future. You exercise now to maintain a healthy life for a prolong ...
22/07/2024

What you do now, you do it for the betterment of your future.
You exercise now to maintain a healthy life for a prolong period of time and also for longevity.
You eat healthy now to avoid taking pills or hospitalization tomorrow.
You save and invest now to be financially stable in the future.
Everything you do today is an investment for a better tomorrow.
We suffer today for a better tomorrow.
So, do the right thing now, to have a better tomorrow.


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Life is really give and take. If you want something you have to give it some. If you want success, you gave to give it ...
22/07/2024

Life is really give and take. If you want something you have to give it some. If you want success, you gave to give it succeeding actions. If you want financial freedom, you have to give it savings and investment.
If you want love, you have to give it self-love. If you want health and fitness, you have to give it healthy eating and exercise.
You just have to give something, to get something.
You have to prove yourself to life, that you are worthy and qualified for that which you are seeking for and it will bless you with what you want and most especially need.

You can't just pray about something, you also have to believe you will have it and act towards it. And lets also remember that asking is not all about or mean praying or verbal communication to God, most of the time, it is the effort you put in and how hard and smart you work.
You working is also, communition to God through actions. Like he said in the Bible 'he will bless the works of our hands'.

Life is that simple.


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The awareness of death is very criticial in life. One of the reasons, I feel make people procastinate alot and do things...
21/07/2024

The awareness of death is very criticial in life. One of the reasons, I feel make people procastinate alot and do things that are detrimental to them is because of the insidious belief that we will always have time. There is this mindset that there will always be time to do anything. Many shift almost everything to the next minute or don't do things for our benefit immediately because this elusiveness. We might not be fully aware of it, but its just there.

I think, death should be something we are constantly reminded of, that way, we keep it at the back of our minds that we are finite being and we are time bound and at anytime, we might stop ticking. L think these will help many of us to take our lives seriously and do all that is needful to put into good use, ourselves and the time allocated to each and everyone of us.

Procrastination and many other self-deprivative attitude might not only be as a result of laziness or lack of purpose, but also as a result of the fact that we live in these illusion of foreverness and we forget we will expire someday. If we are fully aware of this limitation of ours, I think many of us will put ourselves into good use and manage ourselves well.

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Deep within us, we know what to do and need to do, to get to where we want to be. But, since we are unsure of ourselves ...
21/07/2024

Deep within us, we know what to do and need to do, to get to where we want to be. But, since we are unsure of ourselves and scared, sometimes lazy or not convinced enough to do the right thing and take the right actions, we instead, watch tons of motivational videos and keep bombarding ourselves with information that are sometimes not necessarily, just to feel that void or help make us feel we are not ready for what we want.

All we need, is to take the necessary step and lunge into actions. We don't need to know all the answers, neither do do we need to watch all the motivational speech and read all the books. We just need to do the needful of being commit to our goals and try as much as we can to bring to it really. Although, watch motivational speeches and reading is necessary and important but should serve as a guide, not take the place of taking actions.

Atleast, one thing I know now is that answers comes and unfold its while on the journey not while sitting and waiting and not doing anything to actualize our dreams.


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I've lost a lot in my long life.Yes, I've seen pain and I've seen strife.But I'll never give up; I'll never let go.Becau...
19/07/2024

I've lost a lot in my long life.
Yes, I've seen pain and I've seen strife.
But I'll never give up; I'll never let go.
Because I'll always have my ray of hope."

Hopeless
Colleen Hoover

One gift, God has blessed us with is the gift of choice. We have the total and complete freedom to make choices on or ab...
19/07/2024

One gift, God has blessed us with is the gift of choice. We have the total and complete freedom to make choices on or about anythiing. A choice on how to live our lives, how to treat people, to react to life situation and how to act in every circumstances, the kind of people we allow into our lives.

That is one major gift and the best thing God has given all humans and is unique to only humans. Animals don't have that at all, they only eat, sleep and procreate. But for us, in addition to all that, we can choose to be anything and everything we want, but what we should also be prepared for is the consequences of our choices, either good or bad.

Taking responsibility especially when what we choose to do or say turn out wrong is one place we humans lack and fail. Many are proud of themselves when their choices turn out positively and blame God when there is a negative impact.

We have to learn to be accountable and take responsibility for all our choices and actions. And not to forget, every choice we make today, the benefits is not now but in the future and the future can be tomorrow and many more days to come. Future doesn't mean many months or years, it can be the next minutes. Everything we do today, will meet us tomorrow. So, we have to be careful and think properly and thoroughly before doing anything.

We have been gifted with the freedom of choice, lets choose wisely and act with discretion.

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I think it's time we rephrase this statement "Time is going" and "You are wasting time". Time is not going, its here and...
18/07/2024

I think it's time we rephrase this statement "Time is going" and "You are wasting time". Time is not going, its here and will always be. It can't be wasted either, it's we that is wasting.

Time has been here from the beginning of creation. Many have come and left it and we will also role through and leave it.
What is ticking is not time, it's us -we humans-. What is being wasted, is not time but us. If we don't make use of ourself well while still on earth, then, we are wasting yourself not time.

Time is infinite. Its running out is never possible and will never be. But, we as Human are finite. We have an end, we have stages. We have limits in eqch stages. But, the good thing about being human is you can always overcome those limitations and live forever, if we do or create things that will live after us and make people remember us even while we are no longer in existence.

So, we need to always remember, what is going is not time. What is going is us -humans. And what is being wasted is ourselves, our potentials and our capabilities, not Time.
Time has always been here and will always be.

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I don't think there is anyone who wants to be alone for the rest of their lives. Just the incidence surrounding marriage...
17/07/2024

I don't think there is anyone who wants to be alone for the rest of their lives. Just the incidence surrounding marriage and relationship has made many give up. Am not saying being with someone is a must or being married is by force. It's definitely a choice. But I doubt that, there is anyone who wants to be an island. Personally, I feel the best feeling is knowing you have that someone, you can always run to and be yourself around. I know is something only relationship or marriage can give. But having it at the back of your mind that this person is your person is something beautiful. The good thing now is, compared to before where people settle for the sake of it, these days, people prefer to settle because they are convinced, the person they are about to call their life partner is truly for them.

The rate of divorce has increased dramatically this days and people are becoming scared. The rate of abuse which can be both physical and mental, infidelity, in addition to people leaving their partner when they are fully established and financially independent, or seek for divorce just to extort their partners has significantly increase the fear of marriage. Honestly, I don't really blame anybody who choose to just remain single as long as they can't find that one person for them, or are even scared to commit to a relationship, because, everything is hard now and people cannot even be trusted these days.

Let's not even venture into the part where your so called partner becomes a hindrance to your growth. Incidence where people loss themselves to their partners and end up not discover themselves or their highest purpose in life due to lack of support from their partners or being discouraged by them.

We all want someone who will help us to grow and be better, not someone that will cause us pain and bitterness. We all want that one person who will invade our space to atleast be a person of positive influence not negativity.That person who will be our cheerleader, not someone who will be rooting for our downfall.

It has been said many times that 50% of our success or failure in life lies on the person we settle with or should say, someone we ultimately call our life partners. Or to put it directly, our success and failure depends largely on who we call our wives or husbands. Now, you marry someone, after the wedding, you see a completely different person, which sometimes happen immediately after the wedding or few months or years into the marriage. Not to mention, those who put their heart and soul in a relationship only to be heart-broken after many years of commitment.

Due to all these unsureness in human beings and the risk of being with the wrong person, many have choosen to resign from the idea of marriage and prefer to just remain single and continue the course of life alone; discovering themselves everyday as they continue their journey in life, to being with someone who will end up becoming a problem and a burden in their little world and consequently, a hindrance to their growth, progress and fulfillment.

May the Lord gives us that person that will be a blessing to us and not a curse. And also heal those who have put their heart and soul in a relationship and gone through so much to make the relationship work but only end up being disappointed by the ones they love.

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Starting something is actually where the difficulty is. The mind has a way of exaggerating an idea that you end up thin...
17/07/2024

Starting something is actually where the difficulty is. The mind has a way of exaggerating an idea that you end up thinking it's unachievable.

I've experienced many situations, where I needed to start something - although, I've become procastinative these days, which is something am trying to overcome and conquer- and it's just an idea in my head, it feels like the most tedious thing to do and am filled with so much fear. However, as soon as I attempt whatever it was; few seconds into it, am completely hooked and the fear is gone.

Truly, our minds and thoughts can be our greatest obstacle if we allow it. I think the best way to defeat it and it's obscurity is to just lunge into action; that way, you are able to overcome both the fear and the illusion of difficulty.

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This past few months, I've been struggling with weight gain, even though I've been exercising. Although, I stopped exerc...
16/07/2024

This past few months, I've been struggling with weight gain, even though I've been exercising. Although, I stopped exercising a few times but I've resumed fully for many months now. This is not the first time that this has happened, where I added so much weight. But, it wasn't difficult then to add dieting and fasting to my weighloss routine and as a result, I quickly lost alot of weight within a month.

This time, it just so difficult. Exercising isn't the problem. The problem is dieting and most especially, Fasting. I've told myself a million times that I want to diet, fast and do many other things that helps me with my weight management, but it has been difficult. I can barely fast at all. When I try to, I remember I have food in kitchen and fridge. Automatically, I will just lost all my willpower and succumb to the temptation and just go to the kitchen and start eating and then regret it afterwards.

I literally will come back from the gym and download almost the amount of food I believe I lost. Am naturally a foodie right from time. But, at least, I could control it then. I can decided to fast, then eat alot when I break the fasting and it works alot for me, but this days, I just download so much after exercise and don't even have the willpower to fast when I decide to.
I don't even eat when am hungry. I just eat because I feel like eating. I eat for the sake of eating. And my weight keep adding up.

I've told myself a million times that I will need to go into my usual monthly fast, then maintain the weight with weekly fast but, honestly, I keep sabotaging myself and jeopardizing my weight lost goal by myself.

Am just so tired of it seriously. And it seems I've lost every willpower I got. I can't even resist the temptations of eating again. I can't even fast a whole day. I just don't know how to get my drive back again i.e. the drive of fasting even without planning it and also planning my fast and sticking to it.

I need help seriously.
I want my willpower back, I need that discipline back. I just pray I figure out soon, how to be in control of myself and overcome this temptation, consequently losing weight.

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I was talking to someone about a random topic and the discussion ended with exercise and she asked me why I exercise. I ...
10/07/2024

I was talking to someone about a random topic and the discussion ended with exercise and she asked me why I exercise. I naturally hate long talks, so, simpify my numerous reasons to her in one word which was to be Fit.

She was like, so am exercising because am not fit. Immediately, I wanted to start augueing because I felt insulted and tried to make her understand that, it's not my lack of fitness that is making me exercise but more than just that. That, the best word I can use to make it more simple and easy for her to understand was to use the word, Fit.

She was bent on her statement and tried to use the word against me, that its because am not fit and also tried to cajole me to explain further. I wanted to start explaining. I was literally trying put more effort into making her understand and unconsciously, I wanted to be defensive and start auguing. Luckily for me, there was a third party with us, who just quickly told me to just agree with her statement and not try to explain further. I instantly kept quiet.

In this life, there are some people that will always find a reason to augue about anything. No matter how much you try to explain and put it in simple terms for them, they will always find reasons to counteract your statement.
You are not the problem, its just how they are and base on them, they will never be wrong, they are always right and are always willing to augue to the end of dawn to prove their point.

In such case, it is better to just keep quiet and let them win, because no matter what you tell them, they will always stick to there own understanding.
In such situation, don't border stressing yourself. With such people, it is better to agree to disagree because with them, you will never win.

We don't even owe anyone an explanation on how we live our lives.

Let them be, for you to be.
Life is Simple, we just make it difficult for ourselves by trying to proof a point.

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