Labany C Hargreaves

05/03/2025

1THE DANGER OF FORCING LOVE

It is dangerous to force yourself on someone or marry someone who does not love you. When there is no love in marriage, the wedding ring becomes a little handcuff and your marriage becomes a prison yard instead of a paradise on earth.

A man who does not love a woman during courtship will find it difficult to cherish her after getting married. There are people who will never love you no matter how much you show love to them. That's the reality of life. Love is a choice. Don't force yourself on anyone.

Don't keep fighting to be with someone who isn’t fighting to be with you, you can’t keep holding onto someone who is not holding onto you, you can’t keep planning your future with someone who doesn’t plan theirs with you, you can’t keep running back to someone who is running away from you, you can’t keep loving and caring about someone who shows that they no longer love you, and you can’t keep taking someone as a priority yet they are taking you as their option.

Trust me, it’s a waste of time and energy. No matter how hard and hurting it is, you have to let go and open up a new chapter for your life. Because There are thousand of people who are praying and wishing to spend the rest of their lives with you!

Why kill yourself over someone who thinks he/she is doing you a big favor by being in a relationship with you.

You deserve to be happy, loved and cared for not to be sad all the time, to have sleepless nights, to cry and plead for someone’s love. Think about it.

You have to be in a relationship in which you are loved, celebrated, honored and not tolerated. But until you let go of the wrong person from your life, you can't see the right person for your life.

Sometimes We may love the wrong person, cry for the wrong reasons. But one thing is for sure, mistakes help us to find the right person. Know your place in people's life and act accordingly. It's not pride, it is self respect.

26/02/2025

04/12/2024

YOUNG MAN LET ME TELL YOU THE HARDEST TRUTH.

That woman you are dating now has a backup plan, trust me.

There is a guy somewhere she's seeing, there is a guy somewhere in her friendzone that's waiting for her to dump you and accept him, there is a guy someone that's more ready to take her away from you.

The chances that she will not end up with you are very high, the chances that she will dump you for a more successful man than you are high, and the chances that she will become more successful than you by virtue of hypergamy are high.

With women, nothing is certain, anything can happen at any time.

Why am I telling you this??

I am not telling you this so that you will go and break up with her, I am not educating you so you will treat her badly or 8te her or be scared.

I am simply telling you this so you, too, can have a backup plan like her.

Your backup plan is not to find another woman; your backup plan is to become successful, work hard to be the best version of yourself, strive to thrive in life, be financially stable, and build value.

That is a man's ultimate plan.

A woman's backup plan is mostly likely in their body, but men have to create theirs through value.

Don't compare yourself with that woman you are dating now.

You don't have a backup plan, your only plan is to succeed and become the best version of yourself.

This is why, as a young man, you must not take pride in investing in any woman; your focus should be investing in yourself, your mind, and your financial life.

Build yourself and not a woman or relationship, there is time for everything.

If you fail in life, you will lose both your woman and, most importantly, your happiness, peace, and freedom.

Leave woman and their shenanigans let's chase the real deal.

Be wise.

Stay Hargreavised
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