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Living above reproach doesn’t mean pretending we’ve got it all together.It doesn’t mean hiding our struggles, stuffing d...
13/07/2025

Living above reproach doesn’t mean pretending we’ve got it all together.

It doesn’t mean hiding our struggles, stuffing down shame, or pretending sin doesn’t exist. We’re human. Ministry doesn’t change that.

And we’re still called to “confess our sins to one another so that we may be healed.” (James 5:16)

Vulnerability—when paired with wisdom—isn’t weakness. It’s actually what makes space for healing, honesty, and deep, meaningful community.

So let’s stop performing and start leading from a place of grace… whole, forgiven, and real. ❤️

Let’s be real—this might sound harsh, but it’s said with love. 💬 So many have been deeply hurt by reckless words—whether...
08/07/2025

Let’s be real—this might sound harsh, but it’s said with love. 💬 So many have been deeply hurt by reckless words—whether whispered in private or blasted across the internet. Just because you have a keyboard doesn’t mean you have a license to be unkind.

Yes, stand for truth. Yes, speak when led. But also… sometimes the holiest thing you can do is stay silent. ✋🏼

Not every opinion needs a microphone.
Not every thought deserves a post.
We’re preaching to ourselves first.

Jesus said they’ll know us by our love…Not our gossip.Not our church drama.Not our passive-aggressive Facebook posts. 😬I...
07/07/2025

Jesus said they’ll know us by our love…
Not our gossip.
Not our church drama.
Not our passive-aggressive Facebook posts. 😬

If we belong to Christ, then grace, mercy, and unity should mark us—not jealousy, division, and pointed words.

Let’s start fighting for each other again. The enemy is real, but so is the power of a church that actually acts like a family. 💥

Freedom in Christ > Fear of AnythingAnd also…. Happy 4th, y’all!
04/07/2025

Freedom in Christ > Fear of Anything

And also…. Happy 4th, y’all!

Seasonal relationships are healthy and normal, even in the Church. Whether you are mourning a friendship or church membe...
01/07/2025

Seasonal relationships are healthy and normal, even in the Church. Whether you are mourning a friendship or church members who have moved on to another church home, you can let them go.

Stop holding onto what was and embrace what is.

And if social media stirs up old wounds that should be healed, stop following and obsessing over these former relationships.

Looking back is rarely what is best for you, so keep moving forward! ❤️

Felt like a good reminder for a Monday. 😉 WWJD y’all 🤪❤️ Speak life this week! Proverbs 18:21.
30/06/2025

Felt like a good reminder for a Monday. 😉 WWJD y’all 🤪❤️

Speak life this week! Proverbs 18:21.

Let’s say this clearly: spiritual abusers, narcissistic leaders, and flat-out unhealthy pastors do exist, and they have ...
25/06/2025

Let’s say this clearly: spiritual abusers, narcissistic leaders, and flat-out unhealthy pastors do exist, and they have deeply harmed local churches. We’re not ignoring that reality—and we will always speak out against the wolves among the flock.

But we also see the other side: the faithful, exhausted pastors. Human and flawed, yes—but genuinely seeking God’s direction. These are the ones teetering on burnout, quietly carrying more than most people realize, and desperately needing encouragement from their church family.

They’re not perfect. They wrestle with doubts, fears, and failures—just like the rest of us. And they need love too.

So before rushing to criticize, take a moment to really see your pastor. Pray for them. Support them. Because trust us—the good ones know just how much they need it.

Leadership is NOT about being right OR behavior modification.It’s about making disciples of Jesus Christ while humbly ac...
22/06/2025

Leadership is NOT about being right OR behavior modification.

It’s about making disciples of Jesus Christ while humbly acknowledging our own shortcomings. As we serve, let’s not forget our WHY— it’s all for making HIS name known, not ours.

For more church talk, grab our book “Pastors’ Wives Tell All: Navigating Real Church Life with Honesty and Humor” wherever books are sold!

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10/06/2025

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Cast your burden on the Lord, sweet friend. ❤️ You are not God… nor does He expect you to be. 🙌🏼
09/06/2025

Cast your burden on the Lord, sweet friend. ❤️ You are not God… nor does He expect you to be. 🙌🏼

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