18/06/2022
Let's begin this way; everyone can think. Everyone has the ability to produce thoughts. The ability to produce thoughts is called "thinking" If you didn't know that, I thought to clarify.
So, everyone thinks. But there are these sect of people who seem like they don't like to use their brain juice to produce any worthwhile thoughts.
They just linger around, make the worse decisions and run to the "thinkers" to think for them. Some may have money, some may not. Some of them are your bosses, some of them aren't, but we've met them—these outsourcers of thinking.
But if everyone thinks, why can't they just think it up? Well many reasons are at play here, but allow me to suggest at least one.
Now, you must understand that the human mind is wired for both adaptation, and survival. Meaning, we get into an environment, and we just blend in. If the environment doesn't like to blend with us, we find a way to survive it's harsh treatments. Some times the environment bests us, sometimes we are victorious.
But the human mind is WIRED to THINK up solutions, and think them well.
So, what happens to people who just sit like a blub expecting others to think for them?
They THINK that what they asked you to think for them isn't worth their brain juice. Yes! They have thought through it, and don't want to go through the stress of producing a good thought.
So, those who don't "think for themselves" actually think. They are strategic. They find someone who has a proven record of thinking up very sterling solutions, they latch on to them, and use money, or influence, or emotional connection or blackmail, to get them to begin to think for them.
You may see them as parasitic, or symbiotic if you get benefits from thinking for them.
But they aren't clueless as you may think. They have ADAPTED. Many times it happens in childhood, where the parents never let the child to learn independently, they made the child believe that they (the children) are incapable of making the right choices and would always need someone to make it for them.
To be continued...