EMMA

EMMA Recovering meth addict trying to find her way in the world.

18/07/2025

Hey friendlys

Just wanted to clear som**hing up after my last post.

A few of you felt like I was minimising emotional or psychological abuse by saying I’ve experienced “real abuse” and then listing physical stuff. I worded it wrong that was not what I meant at all and I’m really sorry if it came across that way.

I 100% know that abuse isn’t just physical. Emotional, mental, verbal, financial it’s all valid and it’s all bad. I know how damaging it can be even when there’s no visible bruises. it’s that stuff that messes with your head the most that is harder to heal from. 🙏

When I shared what I did I was just trying to say that the relationship I’m in now is nothing like the ones where I feared for my life.

Thank you for being honest with me I honestly didn’t intentionally mean to make it sound like I was invalidating the other abuses.

To my beautiful friendlys I know a lot of you have been worried about me lately and I’ve seen the comments and messages ...
18/07/2025

To my beautiful friendlys

I know a lot of you have been worried about me lately and I’ve seen the comments and messages especially around Franz. Some of them have really started to affect me and honestly they’ve even affected my relationship. When I see repeated comments calling him controlling or manipulative I start questioning it. And that energy comes into our real life. It’s hard because I know many of you care deeply and just want the best for me and I do truly appreciate the love and reminders of my worth.💜

But please remember this is my journey. It’s up to me to work out what’s right for me in my own time and way.

You only see a small part of our lives online. I get that Franz might not be everyone’s cup of tea he’s one of those people you either love or hate. He has a big personality. But some of the comments have crossed the line into bullying and that honestly makes me sad. On his platform there’s barely a bad word about me yet it feels like 80% of mine can’t stand him

At the end of the day he’s my partner. I love him. He’s also Wolfie’s dad. And I really need my friendlys to support that part of my life even if you don’t always get it. That’s actually why we created Our great adventure so that those who didn’t want to see our relationship didn’t have to. But there will be times you see him on my page because he’s part of my life.

This is hard for me part of that old people pleasing pattern. I want to keep everyone happy i want to believe what everyone says even my online fam. But please trust me when I say I’m okay. Like any relationship, we have our ups and downs, but there is love here real love.

Alot of my friendlys will already know im a survivor of domestic violence. I’ve been in some truly terrifying relationships before I’ve been burned with ci******es, suffocated with pillows, strangled, kidnapped and forced to p*e in a bucket, driven through a fence… I’ve known real abuse. this relationship is not like that. I wouldn’t have Wolf around someone that is abusive im stronger than i was.

So please from my heart I’m ok. Thank you for caring thank you for loving me and I hope you can also trust me to walk this path even if it’s different from what you’d choose for me.

Please if you have nothing nice to say dont say it at all

Love always
Emma 💜

18/07/2025

What did I get Franz for his birthday? 🎁💜

18/07/2025

Why does Wolf seem more challenging with me than he is with his dad or even my mum. Does anyone else experience this too?

Franzs birthday is in 4 days! I’m flying home tomorrow so I’ll miss celebrating with him but these are his birthday pres...
18/07/2025

Franzs birthday is in 4 days! I’m flying home tomorrow so I’ll miss celebrating with him but these are his birthday presents from me and wolf that I think he should open tonight maybe on a live!

Any guesses what they might be? 💜🥰

18/07/2025

Since being in recovery I hate owing money. My Afterpay got up to $1,160 recently and now it’s down to around $700. I can’t wait to pay it off completely. The old me would have had no intentions of paying it back.I just paid Wolfie’s doctor bill too ($65) and it felt really good.

I know I might be oversharing but I want to give some hope to anyone who’s in a similar place.

In my early 20s I was so bad with money. I missed rent in a few propertys and ended up at tenancy tribunal more than once I spent money on material items to make myself feel better this was before I got into addiction.

I ended up applying for a non asset procedure but i still didnt learn a couple of years later on I had to go bankrupt. During my addiction just did the same thing avoided bills cause my addiction was my priority. That stuff has affected me for years m.

Recovery hasn’t just helped me get clean it’s helped me grow up and take responsibility. Paying my bills on time, rebuilding my credit, just staying on top of things… it’s taken a lonnnng time but I’m slowly getting there.

If you’re in this situation just know it does get better. You might’ve stuffed up in the past but you can come back from it.

Last year i was given a chance to get a loan for a new car now id love to have the chance to have my own little place. I love staying at my mums but the times coming that wolf needs his own bedroom and we need our own space I rekin enough time would of passed to be able to be given that second chance 💜

16/07/2025

I got my personal page back!! 💜
Massive thank you to my mum and my sister for helping me i gave them my login so they could help with the appeal (needed my I.D 😅)
So grateful 💜

Franz facebook accounts have permanently been banned which has caused me to lose my personal page because I was...
16/07/2025

Franz facebook accounts have permanently been banned which has caused me to lose my personal page because I was a admin to our joint our great adventure page. Its affected me cause i was associated to one of the pages he runs our great adventure If anyone tries to message me you can’t. all my photos memories since 2009 have gone 💔

BIGGEST Happy Birthday to the beautiful lady behind The Loaded Tea Bar 💜🎈 Shanty I’ve become pretty close to you over th...
16/07/2025

BIGGEST Happy Birthday to the beautiful lady behind The Loaded Tea Bar 💜🎈

Shanty I’ve become pretty close to you over the last few months and even though we haven’t met in person yet you’ve been such an amazing support to me. My mum absolutely adores you too! 🤍

I truly hope we get to meet one day soon. I hope your birthday has been everything you deserve and more your always spoiling everyone else it’s your turn now!

You have the kindest, biggest heart and I’m honestly so proud of how far you’ve come and everything you’re achieving. Keep shining and keep going hun. You’re amazing. 💜✨

Last night I did som**hing a bit silly and let Wolf fall asleep at 6pm thinking he might sleep through the night. Big mi...
15/07/2025

Last night I did som**hing a bit silly and let Wolf fall asleep at 6pm thinking he might sleep through the night. Big mistake he woke up at 12:15am. He hadn’t had dinner so I made him a toastie and it was a mission getting him back to sleep. I think the last time I looked at the clock it was around 3am.

So yea I’m absolutely shattered today. I’ve been dropping hints all afternoon hoping Wolf would have a nap so I could too but he wasn’t keen. Franz suggested taking him for a drive to help him sleep, and we ended up finding this random little place called Opoutere even Franz hadn’t been there before. It’s a quiet spot just out of Whangamata kinda tucked away.

We reckin we found a walking track so I was thinking if this post gets 100 reactions I’ll go do the walk and post a review! Not sure what day yet but definitely before I head home 💜

Also I’ve got a group called Step It Up with Emma it’s a walking group if anyone’s keen to join. Just search it on Facebook 💜

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