28/11/2023
Actually, it’s an awkward one…
Sometimes, our art demands that we sit with some pretty big questions.
One of them is this: what kind of fuel is fuelling your process, curiosities, perspectives, and capacity?
When we’re intentional about checking our fuel, all kinds of interesting learnings can float to the surface. To do so, we’ve got to be ready to ask ourselves some tough questions.
They’re designed to investigate whether or not the sources you’re drawing from are, you know, actually helping or hindering.
Here are my let's-ask-the-tough-questions thoughts for you to sit with:
1. Do the humans you spend the most time with truly propel you forward in your goals, dreams, ideas and visions?
2. If there are humans in that list who aren't great sources of support, how can you change your dynamic in what you share with them? (Should you perhaps choose to share new ideas in a safer, more growth-oriented relationship? This may be all about building healthy boundaries - but they certainly don't build themselves.)
3. Are you fuelling yourself with expansive sources of ideas every day, or are you at risk of fuelling yourself with other people's limiting beliefs? (Check the podcasts, shows, social media etc. that you're spending most of your time with.)
4. How intentional are you in what you allow to be a part of your daily fuel?
5. Where can you build more intentionality into those habits, choosing fuel sources of encouragement and nourishment for the next big thing you're looking to tackle?
6. Is there a source of fuel you know you would benefit from, but you're holding back from investing in? (Consider whether you know there's a relationship you want to build, a resource you'd like to purchase, a mentor you want to pursue, etc. - whatever instinct you haven't let yourself explore because it's felt too hard/too risky/too expensive/too soon. How could you cut your learning/development time down by drawing on the appropriate fuel for your needs at this point in time?)
While they can bring uncomfortable truths to light, it's those realities we need to face.
Let me know how you go with your Awkward Questions 📖