12/06/2024
This man has made it all make sense why it never worked out with anyone else ๐ค
I had to go thru the hard breakups and relationships so that I can more fully be appreciative for the easy relationship me and him have found together.
He asked me the other night does it scare you to get married and my response was no but Iโm kinda shocked and scared that it doesnโt scare me lol. I guess itโs true when you find your person it doesnโt scare you and thatโs when you know youโve found your person.
One advice Iโd give is keep an open hand, heart, mind. What I mean by this is donโt put expectations on your relationship imo it kills it slowlyโฆ(looking to far into the future/worrying about things) will only create a anxious attachment and itโs not healthy nor will it make you happyโฆrelease and let go and let each other be free to truly be themselves and I truly believe then you can really build a solid relationship๐ค
Oh and one more thing make sure he makes you laugh endlessly ๐คฃ
This is the first song he ever sent me and it set the tone for our relationship ๐ถ