Kimberly Nicole Foster

25/08/2025

Conservative Gen Z Men, Dating Disasters & Thie Uncle Nearest Scandal | https://youtu.be/JKjggnmdWZM

18/06/2025

Genius marketing move or tired gimmick? Sabrina Carpenter’s new cover has both sides buzzing.

Let me know what you think below 👇🏾 Full essay link in first comment.

05/06/2025

This wasn’t supposed to be Halle’s story.

The shame. The silence from people who should’ve protected her. And now she’s left to defend her peace, her baby, and her name alone.

I’ve been reading Tina Knowles’s memoir as this saga has been unfolding, and it’s a critical reminder of how fiercely brilliant young black women have to be protected.

Now on the Kimberly Has Thoughts YouTube channel https://youtu.be/0ZyCz_zjayg?si=rG68e2eNopH3zq5A

10/05/2025

✨ This year’s Met Gala had the theme, the references, and the cultural weight. But where was the magic?

The 2025 Met Gala centered Black dandyism—sharp tailoring, rich references, and a deep sartorial tradition rooted in Black culture. I was ready to be moved. I was ready for the kind of fashion moment that lives in your mind rent-free for years.

And yet… I didn’t see it. I saw gorgeous craftsmanship and flashes of brilliance (Teyana, Jodie, Lauren, Miss Ross), but overall? It felt constrained—boxed in by the political moment we’re in.

I get why that happened. But I’m still disappointed. I wrote about it all in this week’s newsletter.

📩 Read my full breakdown here: kimberlynicolefoster.co

💬 Did the Met Gala give what it needed to give this year? Let’s discuss.

21/04/2025

They think patriarchy = freedom.

But patriarchy is rules, duty, and pressure — just enforced by other men.

You’re not mad at women. You’re mad the game you worship isn’t rigged in your favor.

08/04/2025

Something dawned on me as I was walking through the Dallas Museum of Art last weekend…

Generative AI is here to stay—but what does that mean for artists?

21/03/2025

For a time, "empowerment" was a cute marketing strategy. Then it turned into a free pass for ambitious women to do whatever they wanted—no accountability, no collective responsibility, no self-reflection. https://youtu.be/ZTUfdXenncY?si=-IXDm8OVyt42Rh7t

18/03/2025

The Instagram Face era may be fading, but the pressure to optimize our looks has only intensified. In this episode, I break down how social media turned beauty into hustle culture, why self-presentation feels mandatory, and whether we’ll ever be free from the next beauty trap.

17/02/2025

Karla Sofía Gascón is having the kind of Oscar season that gives publicists night terrors. Just a few weeks ago, she was poised to make history as the first openly trans actor to win an Academy Award. Now, she’s watching the industry move on without her—because in an opportunistically progressive Hollywood bigotry is bad for business.

This is the perfect scandal for the times we live in: a self-sabotaging villain, a star-studded cast scrambling for distance, and an internet eager to feast on another downfall. Karla’s problem isn’t just that she posted those tweets—it’s that she posted so many of them, with the reckless confidence of someone who assumed she’d never be held accountable. And now, she’s learning what happens when social media receipts catch up with you after you’ve booked a front-row seat at the biggest night in Hollywood.

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12/02/2025

During Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl halftime show, Serena Williams delivered the most satisfying revenge arc I’ve seen in years. Frankly, I don’t care about rappers beefing—but I do care when the women Drake has wronged get their moment to hit back.

At his big age, Drake still can’t stop taking shots at women who’ve long outgrown him. Back in 2022, he tried to clown Serena’s husband as a “groupie.” Now, with Lamar closing the casket, Serena took her victory lap.

Serena’s revenge was a vicarious win for women everywhere who are tired of being the bigger person. Because sometimes, you gotta heel-toe on these [redacteds]. Dance on their metaphorical graves in front of about 130 million people.

Read my full breakdown at kimberlynicolefoster.co because, yes, it’s that serious. Link in bio.

23/01/2025

Being 35 feels powerful, like I’m finally at the height of my powers. But as I look at young women and teenage girls today, I can’t help but feel the weight of how much more complicated their lives have become. Between the pressures of social media, the pandemic, and global political catastrophes, adolescence has turned into a battlefield where body image, self-worth, and mental health are under constant siege.

As someone who grew up before the age of TikTok and Instagram likes, I can see how much freedom we had compared to the hyper-connected, ultra-distracted world these kids are navigating. I feel for them. Truly. The architects of this mess owe an entire generation an apology.

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