06/11/2023
We all need moral support in our lives, especially when we think a task is insurmountable. I thought having brain surgery and living in my overweight body was one of the hardest seasons in my life. My daughter Gloria-Anne, who is in this picture, would drop by the house almost daily to have a cup of coffee and discuss weight lifting, nutrition, and spirituality. She would encourage me not to give up hope for a slimmer, fitter body. GloGlo would tell me that answers would come, and my life would start to improve.
I left Oklahoma to travel to the Mayo Clinic in May 2022. GloGlo and my eldest daughter Zoë agreed to take turns looking after my dog and house while I received medical care.
GloGlo would video phone me every day to discuss her workouts and show me her muscles. She was prepping for her body building show. And, we were planning to start an IG page about fitness for disabled people.
I didn’t make it home for her competition, but I did get to view it via video phone.
I was so proud of her!
We celebrated her birthday in August 2022. A few days later, she left for a trip with her boyfriend to go to Texas. GloGlo never returned home.
She was found dead in her car on a backroad.
Law enforcement can’t prove who murdered her.
It took a year for her headstone to arrive. Today, we decorated the headstone for the first time.
Not only is it for our daughter but also our grandson Max. He died from SIDS when he was a month old. Max was GloGlo’s whole world. She wasn’t sure what to do with her grief until she started lifting weights.
Body building became her therapy, and GloGlo began to live. She used her platform to raise SIDS awareness as well as encourage women to be proud of their natural bodies.
I write this post in honor of my daughter and grandson.
I choose to honor their memories by being an encourager for others, and, yes, that includes you.
Love yourself. Be good to yourself.
I’m here if you need encouragement.